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| Author: | andermax [ Wed May 01, 2013 9:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | She told me off in a restaurant... |
Hi all, just looking for a way to deal with being told off in a restaurant. She knows exactly what she is getting with me, I don't take myself seriously when I am around her and we both initiate a lot of Public affection. We often sit next to each other (opposed to opposite each other) when we go out and openly make out in restaurants so when I came back from the toilet and walked right up to her, turned her around in her chair and tried to kiss her, I was extremely shocked when she loudly and seriously told me to 'Stop it!' I just put my hands up, said whoa and moved my shit to the other side of the table. I then said we should go and I took her directly to the bus stop where she tried to get all cosy with me. I just slung my arm around her and was pretty indifferent. My bus came before hers and I ran for it without looking back, she called out 'text me when you get home' - I haven't. I need to handle this straight away, I don't know who the hell she thinks she is telling me off unless I have done something genuinely bad and I am seething about this. I am a top guy when I am in a relationship and am therefore not used to being told off and would happily end it if it became a regular occurrence. I would rather find away to emphasize to her that this is completely unacceptable behavior and I will be gone in a flash if it continues. Any thoughts? |
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| Author: | speed26 [ Wed May 01, 2013 10:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She told me off in a restaurant... |
Just freeze her out for one day and send her a text asking why she did that? She may have done it instinctively. |
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| Author: | andermax [ Wed May 01, 2013 11:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She told me off in a restaurant... |
Any tips with structuring a text? I don't want to be whiney. In reality I should have called her out on it there and then but I was literally in shock that I had just been told off like a child in a restaurant. I am inclined to just let it go this time and be more prepared if it ever happens again, saying something along the lines of: 'I don't appreciate being told off when I have done nothing wrong. You know what you are getting with me and it seems like you can't handle that.' Thoughts? |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Wed May 01, 2013 1:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She told me off in a restaurant... |
You shouldn't be kissing in a restaurant, but not because she told you stop it. Because it's gross for the other customers. Get a room! |
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| Author: | Rough Operator [ Thu May 02, 2013 12:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She told me off in a restaurant... |
Your behaviour after was a little bit petty. |
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| Author: | rakeal [ Thu May 02, 2013 1:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She told me off in a restaurant... |
Maybe she wants everyone in the restaurant to know you're the one initating the public display, maybe the other customers signaled something to them a snicker or a look |
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