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Author:  XLR8R [ Wed May 01, 2013 4:03 am ]
Post subject:  Barely a week in and already trouble...
Hey guys,

So Ive started dating this HB8 in uni. Shes a nice, fun girl that has some qualities I like about her. I can tell she is head over heels for me (K-closed her 2nd day we met) and her friends like me too.

But heres the problem. I got 2 friends that wanted to date her. I had seen her the first time sitting down with my friend. I asked him who she was (having a reputation as a player, he got angry that I was asking) and replied,

"Im interested in her, cant you see that? Dont you have some bitch to be fucking?" (Getting into PUA has created a reputation for me in uni, not that Im complaining hehe)

So I left it at that, but I could see he was a total AFC and trying to impress her writing poems and such. She didnt really like him and actually made fun of him at one point. He then said he had no more feelings for her. Cue XLR8R :D

So I waltz in like the boss, #close the first day and Kclose the 2nd day. Shes totally in love with me and already wants me to meet her parents hahaha.

Now, for my second friend. This guy is the pure definition of an Alpha. He is certainly less needy than the first friend, and at some point (before I even knew this girl) was gaming her properly (has a background in PUA) Then at some point he went total AFC and fucked up massively. He still has feelings for her (but this guy has bipolar so I dont really know) He has already tried to fuck up my chances with her twice in 2 days, and that is just unforgivable (tried to reveal some private information about her to everybody) which puts me in a state of jeopardy.

My first friend is angry with me for 'butting in and stealing her'. Dialogue:

"But didnt you say you dont like her anymore?"

"Yea, but what you did was still very low. Anyways, good luck to the both of you" (in a bitchy tone)

"I didnt do anything. We like each other and I didnt steal anybody from you. Shes not an object..."

(bunch of whining from his part...)

"STFU"


So Ive cut off all ties with these 2 dickheads. Her opinion hasnt changed of me the slightest (in fact, shes liking me alot more since Im handling the mess like a boss) She feels guilty that shes the reason that Im not talking to my friends anymore, but if this is their attitude, they werent my friends to begin with.

Do you think what I did was right? And if not, how should I handle a situation like this next time?

Thanks for reading guys.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 01, 2013 2:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Barely a week in and already trouble...
You posted this in "Relationships."

Because of the relationship with these two Bro's? Because a week with her is not a relationship.

The two "friends"?

I think you owe it to them, as a friend, to show them how the fuck it's done.

You damn sure owe it to yourself, you've earned it!

Let me put it this way: if there was a banana in the fridge and your buddy afraid of bananas, would you let it sit there and spoil just because doesn't get along well with bananas? I think not. That’s wasteful.

People hating you for getting the girl they want comes with the territory.

But don't rub it in their faces, and at the very least try to allow things to cool down before you and her start dry humping in the common.

If they were dating her already, then you deserve your ass kicked.
Author:  Themagicalone [ Thu May 02, 2013 1:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Barely a week in and already trouble...
Quote:
Hey guys,

So Ive started dating this HB8 in uni. Shes a nice, fun girl that has some qualities I like about her. I can tell she is head over heels for me (K-closed her 2nd day we met) and her friends like me too.

But heres the problem. I got 2 friends that wanted to date her. I had seen her the first time sitting down with my friend. I asked him who she was (having a reputation as a player, he got angry that I was asking) and replied,

"Im interested in her, cant you see that? Dont you have some bitch to be fucking?" (Getting into PUA has created a reputation for me in uni, not that Im complaining hehe)

So I left it at that, but I could see he was a total AFC and trying to impress her writing poems and such. She didnt really like him and actually made fun of him at one point. He then said he had no more feelings for her. Cue XLR8R :D

So I waltz in like the boss, #close the first day and Kclose the 2nd day. Shes totally in love with me and already wants me to meet her parents hahaha.

Now, for my second friend. This guy is the pure definition of an Alpha. He is certainly less needy than the first friend, and at some point (before I even knew this girl) was gaming her properly (has a background in PUA) Then at some point he went total AFC and fucked up massively. He still has feelings for her (but this guy has bipolar so I dont really know) He has already tried to fuck up my chances with her twice in 2 days, and that is just unforgivable (tried to reveal some private information about her to everybody) which puts me in a state of jeopardy.

My first friend is angry with me for 'butting in and stealing her'. Dialogue:

"But didnt you say you dont like her anymore?"

"Yea, but what you did was still very low. Anyways, good luck to the both of you" (in a bitchy tone)

"I didnt do anything. We like each other and I didnt steal anybody from you. Shes not an object..."

(bunch of whining from his part...)

"STFU"


So Ive cut off all ties with these 2 dickheads. Her opinion hasnt changed of me the slightest (in fact, shes liking me alot more since Im handling the mess like a boss) She feels guilty that shes the reason that Im not talking to my friends anymore, but if this is their attitude, they werent my friends to begin with.

Do you think what I did was right? And if not, how should I handle a situation like this next time?

Thanks for reading guys.
You did the right thing your friends no longer had any ties to the girl once you got with her. From what it sounds though you need to find better "friends"
Author:  XLR8R [ Thu May 02, 2013 6:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Barely a week in and already trouble...
Heywood:

Nah bro, none of them were dating her at all. They were just acting like needy idiots and she wanted to keep them as friends. I think I have *some* morality left....

Themagicalone:

Sounds about right. These friends were nuisances anyways, so its better if I find better ones. I think their jealousy kicked in overdrive. I sorted it out with one of them, the other (the beta) is still pissed, but I dont think he is irreplaceable hehehe.

Thanks for the feedback guys. Im loving every second of this forum :D
Author:  league [ Thu May 02, 2013 4:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Barely a week in and already trouble...
Your two friends sound like women

If you all like her and but she only likes you then that's life, i've been on the wrong end of that many times and i didn't moan like a bitch i just accepted the best man won and tried improving myself.

If she'd of got with one of them two i hope you wouldn't of been like them
Author:  XLR8R [ Sat May 04, 2013 11:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Barely a week in and already trouble...
League:

Thats what bothered me, the way they handled the whole situation. For sure I wont have acted the way they did. I know that there are plenty of fish in the ocean, but they still believe in "true love". But the alpha has moved on and already f-closed some babe at his gym, whereas the other beta is still hit by this loss and is moaning at every chance he gets.

Goes to show the difference between the alpha and the beta ;) (Still hate them both, but at least the alpha got over it hehe)
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