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| Author: | prodigy123 [ Mon Apr 29, 2013 7:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Gone with the wind? |
Hey guys, I'm in a pretty complicated situation. I understand how everyone dislikes long paragraphs so I'll try to explain the situation through bullet points: --Met an HB10 2 months ago. Asked her phone number, asked her out and went on two dates. --Second date, I K-close. She then says that she's in a relationship but she's unhappy. She was about to get married but wants to back out. She says she wants to date me instead (I would love to). --We continue hooking up for 2 months and a lot of phone time. All of this happening while she has a fiance. --Fiance finds out about me and he is suspicious about our relationship. She says she has to cut contact with me for a bit "because she wants to break up with him" and then contact me. I say fine. So its been a week and no contact at all. The whole time we were together, I would be hooking up with her and she would always complain about her fiance and how "you're the perfect man for me." She also introduced me to her family. My question is, do I just wait it out? Or should I contact her to ask if she's alright? Because she was pretty distraught and crying last time I talked to her. Please help me out guys! |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Mon Apr 29, 2013 8:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gone with the wind? |
Quote: Hey guys, I'm in a pretty complicated situation. I understand how everyone dislikes long paragraphs so I'll try to explain the situation through bullet points:
Seems like your her guy on the side. If she really wanted to be with you she would broke up with her bf a while ago but in 2 months she keeps giving you bull on why she hasn't ended things. Kind of seems like she's stringing you along and now that her bf knows about you she'll either cut off all contact with you or wait it out for a little bit until her bf isn't hawking all over her. Either way don't be the guy sitting by your phone waiting on her to call, you need to go out and game, you are in no relationship with this chick and have no ties of having to be committed to her.
--Met an HB10 2 months ago. Asked her phone number, asked her out and went on two dates. --Second date, I K-close. She then says that she's in a relationship but she's unhappy. She was about to get married but wants to back out. She says she wants to date me instead (I would love to). --We continue hooking up for 2 months and a lot of phone time. All of this happening while she has a fiance. --Fiance finds out about me and he is suspicious about our relationship. She says she has to cut contact with me for a bit "because she wants to break up with him" and then contact me. I say fine. So its been a week and no contact at all. The whole time we were together, I would be hooking up with her and she would always complain about her fiance and how "you're the perfect man for me." She also introduced me to her family. My question is, do I just wait it out? Or should I contact her to ask if she's alright? Because she was pretty distraught and crying last time I talked to her. Please help me out guys! |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Thu May 02, 2013 5:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gone with the wind? |
She had an affair with you. Likely spells trouble for their marriage, if she still goes through with it. She might be hot, but really, see it for what it is. The girl has a problem with her fiance about being honest and straight. Would you want to be with a chick who would start dating/kissing/confiding in another guy if she had an issue with your relationship? Accept it for what it is, and remind yourself that the best thing for you and her is to leave her be. You're better off with a woman who will shoot straight with you. They are out there man, don't waste your life waiting for the one you think you can't have when the truth of the matter is you shouldn't even want her. At least not until she gets her shit straight. |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Thu May 02, 2013 5:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gone with the wind? |
Use her for NSA sex, she can call you when she's horny, but don't chase her or wait for her. Date other girls and keep her as a backup booty call. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu May 02, 2013 6:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gone with the wind? |
Fuck her, walk away, they make new ones every day ...better ones. |
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| Author: | Unit [ Sat May 04, 2013 1:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Gone with the wind? |
I'd hate to be the fiancé, infact I've been him at one point in my past. Ho's gon be ho's... Fuck her, stop waiting on her, keep gaming and get get yourself a better girl. She's practically cheating on her FIANCÉ!! Let me reiterate FIANCÉ! And you wanna get serious with this girl? Get real |
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