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| Author: | twc1313 [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 7:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New Guy, trying to keep my girl in check |
Whats up guys, I'm here because I'm sick of my new LTR pulling some bullshit on me. Here's the deal Here father passed away in 03, since then shes been a control freak, and before me, brought guys home all the time to "own" them and then toss them in the morning. I played the game right and lured her in and kept her, lately she is pulling shit tests left and right on me (4 months in). Biggest example: She tells me she is no longer into sexting (but she was crazy about it for months and very into it) I tell her that I want it to continue she falls asleep and then in the morning still doesn't reply (this is a common trick of hers) I tell her its rude and childish to ignore me like that she flipps out and i remain calm then she says she is not going with me on this weekend trip we planned (wedding, hotel, etc) So far i replied "Ok, that's fine" and left it at that. Now wtf do I do? I'm trying to go full alpha and make this bitch my toy and keep her interested. Thanks bros |
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| Author: | betablaster [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 7:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New Guy, trying to keep my girl in check |
dump her and walk away, shes a freak and not LTR material just start looking for a girl who is right for you. downgrade her to FB status if you can while you look for a replacement. |
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| Author: | Rough Operator [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 8:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New Guy, trying to keep my girl in check |
I don't think you should blast her for not replying in the morning if you want to remain alpha, just wait for her to message you. But yeah, she doesn't sound like LTR material. |
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| Author: | twc1313 [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 8:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New Guy, trying to keep my girl in check |
Quote: I don't think you should blast her for not replying in the morning if you want to remain alpha, just wait for her to message you.
But yeah, she doesn't sound like LTR material. I agree that I made the mistake of pushing the issue and "whining" about it. That was a big beta move. But I realize I had to keep my frame and keep going with it. I'm gonna ride it out, she will message me like always. |
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| Author: | Ghi-edUp [ Sun Apr 28, 2013 10:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New Guy, trying to keep my girl in check |
Looking at this and other posts, I'll give you the same advice as I have shared with other guys in real life: "Stop trying a Wife (i.e. LTR) a Bitch (i.e. a girl who's caught up following her whims/an ex/etc. with no duty to a LTR)" "Stop trying to Wife (i.e. LTR) a Fun-Hoe (i.e. a Fun-girl who preoccupied with getting sex and the contents of your wallet AND who's caught up following her whims with no duty to a LTR.) Stop trying to create LTRs with these type women or risk getting caught up and frustrated. |
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| Author: | AznPersuasion [ Mon Apr 29, 2013 1:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New Guy, trying to keep my girl in check |
If she is treating you like this, you probably did something to reinforce this behavior. I'm not trying to go all psychologist on you but let's be real, here. If you get complacent in a LTR you sometimes find yourself making compromises that are not fair to yourself, and before you know it, she's walking all over you and you're fighting to keep your head above water. I can't tell without meeting her but I already have a bad feeling about this girl. Just let her cool off this time and keep feeling it out. You might find out it's not worth it. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Mon Apr 29, 2013 2:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New Guy, trying to keep my girl in check |
I swear, do guys into pickup ever just say like normal people do: "Hey, this is just not working out, we're two different people our ideas of a relationship don't match so I think we should just be friends." As Ghi said, it seems like everyone wants to force a relationship with non relationship women. If a girl is rude, non caring or displays non trustworthy characteristics, it is termed "shit test" and something you have to "pass" instead of saying maybe she doesn't care about me and we should not be together. There are so many f'ing amazing women out there |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Apr 29, 2013 3:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New Guy, trying to keep my girl in check |
Not worth the headache with this girl. Is this how you visioned your relationship to be? If she doesn't meet your vision for an ideal relationship then dump her ass. Mr. A |
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