me and my ex broke up about a month ago. and here are the basic details:

first few weeks we were inseperable and yes i admit we did rush things and get a little to serious too soon
the relationship lasted only a month and a half before she broke up with me.
she admitted that she was attracted to me in the beggining but lost all that attraction after i started to remind of her ex of 3 yrs.
i will admit that i did make mistakes. we argued because of the simple fact that she had guy friends and she txted them while around me and sometimes at night. i hated the fact that she always had to txt her ex because he was the baby daddy and he was an ass when it came to letting her see the kid. she didnt like that i got mad easily over dumb stuff like her going to the movies with her best guy friend and his homegirls. yea i dont think i would date my self either..

soo we havnt talked for a month and now she has contacted m e and were friends (for now i hope). she made it clear that were never going to date again and that i killed any attraction she had for me and it will never come back.

is this salvagable ? i once read some where that if u want your ex back , there had to be some kind of spark and attraction in the beggining, some kind of intimacy. and if there was any of that then yes it is possible that you can get her back.. is this true? im assuming its a hit and miss

any rules and tips i shud follow to a tee? ive already accepted the fact that we may never get back , but i figured its worth a shot.