Alright so two days ago I became official with a girl (told her to be my gf) after about 2-3 months of seeing each other. We both care for each other a lot/ do a lot of things for each other/ basically we're pretty in love - always hugging/holding hands/kissing etc .. People always tell us we make a really cute couple and all that stuff - maybe it's because we both were nominated for best looking people in our school last year ( i actually won the award) - so at school when we're together, people are always staring and making a scene and shit ..
Anyways, even though we dig each other a lot - i still feel deep down that there are some trust issues . I think it's because we both know what we've done BEFORE we started talking to each other. Ive seen her hookup with guys and she's seen me hook up with girls (remember - this all was BEFORE we started seeing each other). Everytime I go out and she's not with me she tells me things like "be on your good behavior" in a worried tone ( I honestly dont want to be with any other girl besides her - i wouldn't do something behind her back like that ) , but I have to admit when she goes out and i'm not there I get worried also .
I don't know why I get nervous, deep down I have trust issues even though as far as i'm concerned, as long as we've been talking we havn't done anything bad to each other, everything's been good so far. Maybe it's because I know there's a lot of guys who would love to be with her . But obviously i'm pretty sure she thinks the same about me "a lot of girls wanna be with him .."
So going back to how I started off, we became official two days ago - when I asked her to be my GF she got really excited and even put down the date and everything . Honestly I love this girl . we still havn't changed the status on facebook - and i'm pretty sure that once I do it , a lot of guys who are on her dick will back off . am I (as the guy who asked her to be my gf .. ) supposed to be the guy putting the change of relationship status and sending her the relationship request ?? or am i supposed to talk to her about it or what? cause honestly like I said , I have some trust issues and I think doing this is going to definitely help . I mean as a guy they say you're supposed to take charge of the relationship so I guess that DOES mean that I'M supposed to be the one doing the change ? it feels awkward as fuck cause I'm so used to the girl doing most of the shit . but I guess it all changes when you're this serious ?
also besides the facebook request question I had, what do you guys recommend I do about this deep down trust issue I think we seem to have? We try not to show our weak side to each other but we really are in love and I think there must be a way to make ourselves more at ease but I just don't know how . help?
thanks a lot
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