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| Author: | beanbagballer [ Tue Apr 16, 2013 5:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Messed up, what to do now without seeming AFC |
What's up guys? Okay, I had a terrible day at work today and had just got into a fight with my boss when this girl I'm talking to texted me saying that she'd have to postpone our date #5 until Thursday (she offered another day so good sign). Anyways, I saw this and was still in a frustrated mood while texting her and said something that I'm pretty sure pissed her off and it was by accident. Just caught me at a bad time when I wasn't thinking straight. Here's the convo: Her: Just go ahead and take someone else! We can do something Thursday Me: Mike's going, sounds good Her: Okay, sorry Me (Where I fucked up): It's np really, you're the one missing out Her: Well okay then Me (Trying to save face): that did sound assholeish didn't it, I'm at work so I was texting quick, meant more it's too bad youre working instead Nothing back from her at all. Pretty sure I shouldn't have sent that last text either. Each of her other texts were sent to me less than a minute after I sent mine so I know she has seen this. I want to explain the situation to her but am afraid that it will look insecure and almost needy. Should I just wait until Thursday when I see her in person and explain and just wait to see if she texts me? I also feel a text apology would not appear sincere. Anyways, what is the next step on this beaten path that I should take? Thanks for any and all advice. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 16, 2013 6:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Messed up, what to do now without seeming AFC |
A. You posted in "Relationship" 4 dates + one maybe, and your in a relationship? When is the wedding? B. Have you even banged it yet? C. Conversation should have ended Quote: Her: Okay, sorry
D. Fucking up SLIGHTLY did not warrant ANY amount of ass kissing from you then...or ever!Now, just quit over-thinking all of it, and go on business as usual! Text something completely off topic next time. Think about it, is she really going to get all pissy over one text message? And if she does...is that the kind of gf you want? |
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| Author: | harare [ Tue Apr 16, 2013 6:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Messed up, what to do now without seeming AFC |
Quote: but am afraid that it will look insecure and almost needy
Thats the point you need to focus at... You are afraid that it will look insecure and needy = You ARE insecure and needy...No matter how good on texting you are she will notice that sooner or later beacause it is impossible to hide. So stop kicking your head about one unsignificant text, and start kicking head about how to get rid of your insecurity... And it is much difficult objective 
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| Author: | beanbagballer [ Tue Apr 16, 2013 7:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Messed up, what to do now without seeming AFC |
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B. Have you even banged it yet?
B. YesC. Conversation should have ended Quote: Her: Okay, sorry
D. Fucking up SLIGHTLY did not warrant ANY amount of ass kissing from you then...or ever!Now, just quit over-thinking all of it, and go on business as usual! Text something completely off topic next time. Think about it, is she really going to get all pissy over one text message? And if she does...is that the kind of gf you want? C. Yeah, but like I said I wasn't in a good mood and definitely was not thinking right. D. Don't think I ass-kissed, just explained myself once I had a cooler head And definitely true on that last sentence. |
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