Yeah, sometimes feeling validated by being with a hot girl is great. You should realize that it is some neediness in you though. However, I say, as long as the sex is good. Who cares.
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| Author: | debeste95 [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 1:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Asking her what's wrong needy? |
So I'll keep it short, been dating this HB8.5 for a month and a half, she started not answering or barely answering my texts since a few days and it's getting worse, could just barely convince her to come over to my place wednesday and even then she just stayed for an hour and we didn't do anything intimate, not even a goodbye kiss. I hate being clueless about women's problems and I don't feel like wasting any time on a lost potential, does asking her what's wrong or bothering her come over as needy? And how would I ask her to get the most generous answer? |
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| Author: | smushed [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 1:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
You have absolutely no idea what's wrong? Can you give any idea what might be going on? Also, this is not the place for a question like this. Should be in relationships. |
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| Author: | debeste95 [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 2:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
Well, I did kind of 'cheat' on her last sunday evening by kissing a coworker of mine, but I'm almost certain she doesn't know about that. But that's a whole different matter. I may have subconsciously started becoming a bit more needy as she started showing a bit less interest, not too sure. It's just that she tends to show a bit less intention of keeping the conversation going than I do. When she came over wednesday I felt a bit bad about that sunday evening and first wanted to tell her but decided not to, that may have stuck in my head a bit and I was quite nervous at times while I am usually the most comfortable ones when we're together. Just read back our texts since last sunday morning when she was still acting all normal, when I went out I may have given her a feeling I did not care about her since I told her a couple of times I went with female friends and coworkers and some guy friend. She may be jealous, I'm not quite sure. Maybe she thinks I lost my interest in her but usually they would invest more to gain my attention again. I really don't have a clue apart from her having found out about my sunday night 'adventure'. Which I deliberatly did not tell her because I felt so bad about it and didn't want to give her a shitty feeling since she's in the middle of her exams right now. |
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| Author: | smushed [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 2:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
Quote: Which I deliberatly did not tell her because I felt so bad about it and didn't want to give her a shitty feeling since she's in the middle of her exams right now.
Call me an insane person, but maybe she's just in the middle of her exams and has other things on her mind then you? You never know.Anyway, why worry about it? If you are making out with other girls then probably this one isn't so important. Just have a fun life and she'll come around when she does, or she won't, and that could be okay as well. |
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| Author: | debeste95 [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 2:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
Quote: Quote: Which I deliberatly did not tell her because I felt so bad about it and didn't want to give her a shitty feeling since she's in the middle of her exams right now.
Call me an insane person, but maybe she's just in the middle of her exams and has other things on her mind then you? You never know.Anyway, why worry about it? If you are making out with other girls then probably this one isn't so important. Just have a fun life and she'll come around when she does, or she won't, and that could be okay as well. |
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| Author: | smushed [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 2:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
Yeah, sometimes feeling validated by being with a hot girl is great. You should realize that it is some neediness in you though. However, I say, as long as the sex is good. Who cares.
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| Author: | debeste95 [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 2:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
Quote: Yeah, sometimes feeling validated by being with a hot girl is great. You should realize that it is some neediness in you though. However, I say, as long as the sex is good. Who cares.
Yeah, I would rather not see this end yet, I see some very potential LTR, just don't want to waste any more thoughts and time if it's a lost game already. So do you think asking her what's wrong if anything be needy? If it ends I want to end it on good terms, not in a fight.
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| Author: | smushed [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 2:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
Why not just give her some space? Or do something nice for her. I don't know, bake her some cookies or something. 
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| Author: | debeste95 [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 3:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
Quote: Why not just give her some space? Or do something nice for her. I don't know, bake her some cookies or something.
I think I'll stick with the giving her some space idea. I feel like doing something like that would be a bit needy and I want her to focus on her exams first. Maybe just wait if she changes over the days and if not, I've got some amazing parties planned in the next few weeks so I'll have enough distraction to not think about it too much. For some reason I feel like it'll be alright and if not, oh well. We'll move on. It's not like it's the first time this happens to me, not even remotely close haha. Thanks for your input mate!
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| Author: | smushed [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 3:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Asking her what's wrong needy? |
Great. Was just kidding about the cookies.
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