I got into a fight with this girl im dating. I was out drinking and she texted something that really pissed me off.
I flipped out ( I know i shouldn't have, but it is what it is), because i felt disrespected.
She then called me saying she was just being silly and didn't really mean it.
While on the phone with her drunk, I said some mean stuff (AFC shit) and i lost my control.
She said she hates it when I get angry at her because its terrifying.
I then said I'm sorry and called it a night.

So what should I do now?
Should I apologize to her or no?
I have to take her to formal in 2 days so something has to happen by then.
Thanks

Ofcourse you should fucking apologize what the hell is wrong with you ?

This is common fucking sense. You go balls out on her cuz you can't control your drunk ass and now you're in doubt weather you should apologize ?

Seriously...what the fuck ?

I totally agree with R.C.. Jeesh.

(and I don't agree with Kenny. What he writes is absolutely dysfunctional.).

Will telling her “I'm sorry” make her more attracted to you? No. What about "I love you" or blowing up her phone after you two have gone on a break?

You're looking at this from a logical point of view and not an emotional one. That's how we men look at everything. Women use logic as more a means of rationalizing things than a decision-making process.

An apology will not lead her to think, "Oh, he said sorry, so I am going to be attracted to him."

If you want to keep her, you can’t be afraid to lose her.

This isn't right. It has been shown through studies after studies that resentment in a couple is the beginning of the end. See Dr John Gottman's work. Saying sorry is a repair attempt that helps heal resentment. Attraction is not a main factor in relationship success.

Will telling her “I'm sorry” make her more attracted to you? No. What about "I love you" or blowing up her phone after you two have gone on a break?

You're looking at this from a logical point of view and not an emotional one. That's how we men look at everything. Women use logic as more a means of rationalizing things than a decision-making process.

An apology will not lead her to think, "Oh, he said sorry, so I am going to be attracted to him."

If you want to keep her, you can’t be afraid to lose her.

I seriously can't believe this. What the fuck does that have to do with attraction ?

I swear some of you guys are taking this 'ME ALPHA , ME NEVER APOLOGIZE' soooooooooooo sooo far.

Like I said before , this is common sense .

"A man does whatever the fuck he wants but he RECOGNIZES THE CONSEQUENCES. "

If you fuck up , you're supposed to be a fucking man and take fucking responsability for your actions.Please leave the "I DIDN'T DO NOTHING WRONG. I'M NOT APOLOGIZING BECAUSE I DIDN'T DO ANYTHING.IT'S YOUR FAULT." to the women. That's their trademark. Don't be a lill' bitch like that.



This goes beyond PUA. This is about integrity and having character. If you think you can be a PUA , or even a man for that matter without those qualities , then good luck. You're on the highway to failure.


But hey , dafuq do I know ? Go ahead and never apologize when you're being an idiot. It's not like anyone will ever respect you for it. People will love you if you try to pretend it never happened till it goes away.Run away from your problems. That always works out so well for everyone.