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Author:  Cornflake [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 2:51 am ]
Post subject:  Relationship Advice please.
Alright, uhh some background I guess... I'm 22 in college, I've had roughly 17 kills. I'm outgoing and a pretty handsome guy. Always been single by choice and have been very happy until all the ONS's left me feeling empty and wishing I cared for someone.. Flash forward, I have my first girlfriend, we've been sleeping together a lot for about 4 months and I asked her out about a month ago. It is both of our first serious relationship.

Problem: I am a curious curious kid, I always ask her "whats the most times you've had sex in a day" or "Any embarrassing hook-up stories?" and even though I am genuinely curious, I always end up feeling a little insecure and a bit regretful for this new-found knowledge. Even though she has less sexual partners in her past, most of them even though they were not relationships were somewhat consistent fuck buddies, for example she has slept with one friend for about a year and a half but it was a FWB thing and I'm the first one she's had feelings for. Regardless of this I get rattled when I find out stories about her past and I feel that my experienced past is really not all that experienced compared to hers.

Any advice on how to handle this stuff? Obviously not asking solves the problem, but I think I'd rather know.. maybe perhaps wait longer into the relationship before finding out? She has noticed a couple times she says that I'm not thrilled to hear her answers but I tell her I appreciate her truthfulness and I prefer that.
Author:  London Chase [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 4:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship Advice please.
whether you find out now or at the end of your relationship your feelings for what you find out will stay the same.

unless you plan on locking this chick down with a ring i wouldn't worry about it. unless you plan on locking this chick down with a ring i wouldn't worry about it.

It's your first serious relationship and your girl has had sex mostly with people she wasn't dating and most of these sexual encounters were on a consistent to daily basis.

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we've been sleeping together a lot for about 4 months and I asked her out about a month ago
for three months you were her fuckbuddy
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I'm the first one she's had feelings for
she has meaningless sex with people (ons)

makes you wonder how many different fuckbuddies she has at one time

keep her around for sex (that's what she does or did with her former fuck buddies)
this one i wouldn't make a housewife
Author:  Cornflake [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 5:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship Advice please.
Thanks for your insight London. I think you are right, I don't think time will necessarily change the feelings. Yes, I was her fuck buddy for 3 months but she did ask me a lot whether I was seeing other people during this time and she had told me she was not so I don't think that was ever an issue. I also don't think because my girlfriend has had sex in her past she is now not "housewife" worthy lol. Obviously I am no saint and she is able to overlook it and I'm sure she experiences some jealousy when I tell her about my past flings. I just would like to hear from people with LTR's how they approach/ did not approach these type of conversations. We like each other a lot and we want to know more about each other but we want a good way to go about it.
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