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Author:  Indecypher [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 1:44 pm ]
Post subject:  How to react when gf thinks this way about our sex life?
Today, my girlfriend was telling me about one of her friends that had a fight with his girlfriend because he refused her offer for sex. Jokingly, I said "Sounds like you :P", and she said "lol, sounds like you, not me" and became weirdly distant. This made me realise that she has this mindset that I want sex more than her... it never used to be like this, but I guess this mindset has slowly developed, and it's obviously a bad thing. How should I have reacted immediately (I just stopped replying and so did she, was this the right thing to do?), and how should I play this from now, in order to get her wanting it more than me again?
Author:  Finesse! [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 4:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to react when gf thinks this way about our sex life?
Be an Alpha male, be dominant in the bedroom and bring out that primal ape.

Are you emotionally charging her for sex throughout the day? I.e are you doing things to raise her sexual feelings such as hot random makeouts, talking dirty, kino? Girls are unlike guys, we can switch to wanting sex very quickly while women are much more emotional and take a much longer time period to feel like having sex.
Author:  mikemight [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 4:30 pm ]
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Today, my girlfriend was telling me about one of her friends that had a fight with his girlfriend because he refused her offer for sex. Jokingly, I said "Sounds like you :P", and she said "lol, sounds like you, not me" and became weirdly distant. This made me realise that she has this mindset that I want sex more than her... it never used to be like this, but I guess this mindset has slowly developed, and it's obviously a bad thing. How should I have reacted immediately (I just stopped replying and so did she, was this the right thing to do?), and how should I play this from now, in order to get her wanting it more than me again?
I bet if he met an exciting challenging man today, she'll have no issues having lots of sex with him! Basically her feelings toward you is falling and she's using contrasting to give you signals.
You're probably becoming too easy. Have you reduced the things you like doing to be with her more?!? Don't focus your relationship alone by just sexing. Rather have you and her do interesting things together by your lead. When she gets back into the mood, the bedside talk will become history.
Author:  Fly_Swatter [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 5:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to react when gf thinks this way about our sex life?
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Be an Alpha male, be dominant in the bedroom and bring out that primal ape.
This.

Rape her. Fuck her hard. Fuck her fast. Destroy her vagina. Leave no survivors.

She'll be wanting more.
Author:  vhou812 [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 6:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to react when gf thinks this way about our sex life?
Does she want sex less than you, or does she just think that she does? And really, who gives a shit who wants it more?

Do you want her to want sex more than she does? If so, the suggestions here are good. The bottom line really is this: The better the sex is for her, the more she will want it. If you need to really comprehend this concept, imagine that sex meant getting hard, her fucking you till she comes, then hopping off and leaving you hard and not finished. Or, imagine that she doesn't do anything to turn you on. These are extremes, just trying to make the point that the more she enjoys it, the more she will want it.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Mar 21, 2013 6:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to react when gf thinks this way about our sex life?
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Today, my girlfriend was telling me about one of her friends that had a fight with his girlfriend because he refused her offer for sex. Jokingly, I said "Sounds like you ", and she said "lol, sounds like you, not me" and became weirdly distant. This made me realise that she has this mindset that I want sex more than her... it never used to be like this, but I guess this mindset has slowly developed, and it's obviously a bad thing. How should I have reacted immediately (I just stopped replying and so did she, was this the right thing to do?), and how should I play this from now, in order to get her wanting it more than me again?


From experience I tell you ,pay no attention to that. She didn't develop that mindset , she was indoctrinated with it since birth , when everyone around her - parents , media and everything in between - taught her that men want only 1 thing from her - sex.

And to some extent that is true. If a woman has nothing more going for herself other than her looks (no brain - virtually provides no mental challenge) than yes , that is all a man will ever want from her.


Regardless , think nothing of it. It's just a defensive response. You touched a nerved that has been overly sensitized by todays' society.
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and how should I play this from now, in order to get her wanting it more than me again?

One of the most valuable sayings of the PU community is "Pay no attention to a womans' words , but to her actions."

I experimented with this truth with my last girlfriend. Talk to her about sex and she'd get all whined up "I'm not your sex toy". (words , women and their words).

Initiate (take action) non-verbally and 10 minutes later she's begging me to spank her ass.


Point is , she might say she won't follow (social anti-slut defense mechanism) , but she will. Because she wants it. As much as or even more than you.


Have no fear , you're doing fine.
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