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| Author: | Danzella [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 10:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
I've been seeing this girl for about 3 months now, it's been going good until recently. I've started to see some red flags but I can't tell whether or not I'm being insecure, I'll try and keep the explanation short. Red Flag 1: She says that she hasn't got much money and has been saving up, but just tonight she literally out of no where said she has hired her cousin a limo for her birthday party, there was no mention of it beforehand, not sure how she managed that with "no money" Red Flag 2: A few days ago she said that she got off the bus because she overheard a group of guys saying they were going to mug an old man, 20 minutes later she texted me saying she'd been beaten up. She may well have been, but I don't quite believe it Red Flag 3: Shes 18, since the supposed "beating" she said her mum has told her to be home before dark, and yet tonight its gone 11 and shes out with friends. Red Flag 4: Last night I was going to meet a friend, it was about 1am and just happened to mention it to her because we were texting at the time and she got really weird, she started telling me to stay indoors and that I better not have gone out. I replied saying "you can't tell me what to do, I'm out anyway" and she literally started calling me a dick, telling me to fuck off etc.. I've just read back through those and admittedly, besides from number 4 it doesn't seem like a big deal, but something is telling me something isn't quite right, and I have no idea what it is! |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 5:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
Too much smoke for me man. I'd be running away from that one. |
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| Author: | Volter130 [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 7:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
You have to set the boundaries. She was disrespectful, controlling and tried to degrade you. Those seem like deal breakers to me. Soft or hard next her. Plus after 3 months, get out while you still can! |
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| Author: | Danzella [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 11:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
Quote: You have to set the boundaries. She was disrespectful, controlling and tried to degrade you. Those seem like deal breakers to me. Soft or hard next her. Plus after 3 months, get out while you still can!
Cheers - I did soft next her whilst she was trying to be all controlling, honestly don't have a clue where that came from! Glad it's just not in my head, I actually feel a lot better knowing that |
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| Author: | R.C [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 11:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
The red flags here are about as red as they get. "Run ,you fool." |
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| Author: | Danzella [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 1:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
Thanks guys! She ended up pretty drunk last night and started texting me, I didn't really respond and kept messages short, the jist of it was her trying to get me to tell her how I feel about her, she started talking about how she wasn't sure if she trusted me etc.. etc.. then went into how she wanted to be with me forever?! Girls messed up, haha |
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| Author: | hendu89 [ Sun Mar 17, 2013 8:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
seems like that is a little more than insecure on her part. The fight thing is out there, but who am i to call her a liar idk the truth. My first thought is a girl that needs alot of attention. however when she tried to become controlling of you staying inside that's what raises my awareness, i would think that if it was just insecurities she would of hit you with 20 questions about what you were doing throughout the night not telling you to stay inside. Run imho good luck. |
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| Author: | Rough Operator [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 2:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
Quote: Thanks guys!
Oh dear, get out of there!She ended up pretty drunk last night and started texting me, I didn't really respond and kept messages short, the jist of it was her trying to get me to tell her how I feel about her, she started talking about how she wasn't sure if she trusted me etc.. etc.. then went into how she wanted to be with me forever?! Girls messed up, haha I bet £50 that if you tell her you feel the same within a week she will get cold and fuck with your head completely. |
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| Author: | andyredsox [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 9:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
Dude, don't waste your time with her. She is trouble man, I'll tell you. She makes you crazy. Stop the communication as early as you can. You must avoid her. You don't know what really on her mind. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 2:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
Hahaha this girls sounds just like me. RUN ! |
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| Author: | Danzella [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 3:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Red Flags or Just Insecure? |
Well, it seems everyone is telling me to get out so that's exactly what I'm going to do! Looking back over everything, she does seem completely crazy! Nexted. Cheers |
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