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| Author: | topcat3 [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 8:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | She flaked on plans |
So we were meant to meet in the evening and had it planned all week. I send a text to say I'll call over around 9. she texts back saying she has a headache and thinks its better we meet tomorrow because she wants to go to bed early i didnt reply. so what way I play this? I know shes going to get in touch and say...are you angry with me? just thinking best way to play |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 9:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She flaked on plans |
Need more details... Girlfriend or just a girl? Impossible to tell you what way to play it from what you've told us. |
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| Author: | topcat3 [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 10:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She flaked on plans |
Quote: Need more details... Girlfriend or just a girl? Impossible to tell you what way to play it from what you've told us.
year long casual relationship.... thats sort of turning into a relationship. she says she doesnt want to commit and is doing alot of shit testing at the moment but then the next moment she is so sweet and looks after every need.I called her and just said ok go to bed, i'll see you tomorrow. I said are you sure you dont want me to come over and she genuinely sounded sick. then she sends email saying she'll cook nice lunch tomorrow. |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 10:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She flaked on plans |
If you've been with her for one year and pushing for a relationship when she's been pushing you back, you need to freeze her out everytime she flakes. After saying she's going to bed with a headache, I wouldn't have sent her back any message. Left it to her to contact me next. |
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| Author: | topcat3 [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 10:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She flaked on plans |
Quote: If you've been with her for one year and pushing for a relationship when she's been pushing you back, you need to freeze her out everytime she flakes. After saying she's going to bed with a headache, I wouldn't have sent her back any message. Left it to her to contact me next.
i was going to do that. i didnt reply for an hour and then she answered straight away when i called. she then followed up with a nice email.....do these shit tests keep going and going?? its testing my patience because i cant act like the way i want to be |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 11:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She flaked on plans |
Yep, they keep coming. And obviously, if she's still unsure after a year, it's because you're failing her shit tests. Time to up your skills and knowledge if you wanna date her. You shouldn't have even called her honestly. Let her come to you when she rejects you. Unless she has a legitimate excuse of course. |
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