I mean i'm planning to just to move on and be back on my grind.

but i do still want things to work out for us and start again. I want to do it before its too late and she loses her feelings towards me.

But its constant that we always headbut because both of us have a very similar personality. (not giving in)

Your saying two different things. This is what you NEED to do.
But this is what you WANT to do!

It sounds like your on the verge of professing your love and admiration to her?

And how much she means to you? All in an attempt to win her back?

Sound like familiar thoughts?

Bro the reason she contacted you is because she has no idea wtf your up too.

By now she should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.
Let her wonder.

But now she has contacted you, and you think "I have to let her know how I feel before I lose her!"

WRONG.

You HAVE to let her know you are still attracted to her. To do this you need to know how to talk to women.

Express your sexual intent and attraction all you want.

SPARINGLY!

That is perfectly fine. But, don’t let her know you want more than that.
You have to be stone cold impossible to read.

She wants to chase you. She wants a challenge. She wants a guy she cannot completely figure out.

That's what turned her on in the first place!

You gave her the gift of missing you, it's starting to work, and now you want to take it back?

FAIL!

The second part of keeping the attraction going is being able to continually flip her attraction switches during your time in contact with her.

You need to get a life of your own and not depend on her for emotional stability, once you can validate your own life you won’t need her validation. Therefore you will naturally act as an attractive male as you should be.

Every time your apart she should be wondering if she will ever see you again. She should be wondering how much you like her. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.

Let her fucking wonder!

Not giving in - means neither of you are open-minded. Both of you are always right, neither of you see each others side.

Before you two can work the relationship out together, you both have to change your mindset and be open minded. You were both probably raised differently, and have different out looks on how things should be done. Although this is true, you need to be open-minded, to understand each of yours opinion makes since to you because of the way you were raise but it also doesnt make the other person wrong.


You do need to NEXT her for a while and leaving her wondering. Research what being and open-minded person means and then after she has wondered a while, rekindle it with her and discuss what you have learn about being and open-minded person with her.

I mean i'm planning to just to move on and be back on my grind, but i do still want things to work out for us and start again. I want to do it before its too late and she loses her feelings towards me.

She wants to know you're not already seeing somebody else. If she wants you back, let her work for it. And texting "I miss you" is not work.

where do i take it from here now on?

Stay elusive, keep her wondering.

Wherever you want your in control!

Stay elusive, keep her wondering.

The more time she spends wondering what your up too, the more time she dedicates to thinking of just you.

She texts me everyday and trying to talk to me. So that is hard to avoid lol.
Would it be bad if I just completely ignore it? I mean i reply and small talk.
But how do i send a message or show an impression to tell her i'm busy by not just ignoring her on purpose lol