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Author:  Swiss76 [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 1:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Relationship lights are on but nobodys home!

Lights are on but nobody's home! Been dating a girl for about two years never ran game on her that I can remember things were great at first more sex an the best sex I've ever had in my life it's slowly went down hill though. She wanted to move out last week an I begged her to stay I don't think she really cares if she's their or not sex rarely happens anymore she has lost interest an attraction an says I'm bien an ass when I start gettin a distant as she is. I need help can I run game on her I've forgotten most of the game I have learned but wouldn't take me a few days to refresh myself what do I do she lives with me she's got my self confidence down self esteem she won't give compliments nothing I feel like such a chick help please!

Author:  Rough Operator [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 1:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship lights are on but nobodys home!

Don't think there is much chance of a miraculous turnaround in a short space of time. Let her go, work on yourself and go no contact for a while and hope she comes back. Personally I would find it nigh on impossible to overcome problems like this if I was living with the girl.

Author:  Swiss76 [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 1:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship lights are on but nobodys home!

When we do have to talk how do I Handel the situation when she flirts when she wants me to pay attention to something stupid she wants me to see on her phone. Or when she does offer sex? My life outside of us has been pretty non existstent her main complaint has been to stop talkin about the relationship an let her breathe?

Author:  krular [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 5:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship lights are on but nobodys home!

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When we do have to talk how do I Handel the situation when she flirts when she wants me to pay attention to something stupid she wants me to see on her phone. Or when she does offer sex? My life outside of us has been pretty non existstent her main complaint has been to stop talkin about the relationship an let her breathe?

This seems like she is still interested and wants you to put in the effort that you did when you first meet her. She wouldnt be still be flirting with you if it was totally over. A woman that is totally done with a man will not be flirty with you in anyway, she will be down right hateful. You do need to Soft Next and look at yourself right now. Like she said, let her breathe and you will be fine.

Author:  Swiss76 [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship lights are on but nobodys home!

Soft? I've been out o the game for about five years the only game I taught was reading Neil Strauss the game an an takeing notes. She wants no relationship talk me to stay busy an only give affection of any kind compliments physical touch whatever when she wants to rarely when I anitiate it she's the one in control wtf happend?

Author:  krular [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 1:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship lights are on but nobodys home!

Soft Next is when you only contact her when she contacts you.

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Author:  Swiss76 [ Thu Mar 14, 2013 2:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship lights are on but nobodys home!

Thanks for the advice! Best thing I've read in five years.

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