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DO NOT surprise her with tickets. By all means just don't. Seriously man,listen to me. Do not do that.
Ok,anyway. You always want the girl to initiate the 'relationship' talk. I never really think about it like that ,ever. With my ex , we saw each other for about 8-12 times and she said something along the lines of:
Her:So...my friends are asking me if we're together.
Me(like a smartass):Yeah,sure,we're in the park,just the two of us,together
Her(*playful punch in the arm*): I mean in a relationship ! What do I tell them ?
Me:Tell them you have to have sex with me first before you can make such an important decision.
Her:Ok,my place or yours ?
Obviously it was all in a joking manner , we didn't have sex or anything until then or immediately after that , but it was a way of teasing her before saying yes. Don't wanna make it easy for her,do we ?
I don't really believe that her friends asked , but rather it was her own insecure little way to ask for me exclusivity. Anyway, we were having a real great time together so I went with it.
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Should I just be outright and say let's book a flight and let's go!
.Yeah,say something along the lines of:
"A'right,pack your stuff while I book the flight. Also,make some sandwiches"
Gauge her reaction. You're saying this jokingly , so it's safe.
Her:bablabl
You: no no ,I'm serious. Let's do it . (again,jokingly)
Her:balbabal
Just interpret the bla bla . If she says "Stop teasing me ,I'd really love to" or something positive ,then:
You: Ok, come to think of it that actually might be really fun. That's it,we're doing it,seriously now.
And there you have it.
If she seems negative or reluctant , leave out the last part and again , you're perfectly safe because you were just joking around.
Again,DO NOT buy her tickets and try surprises. It's an unnecessary risk.
I bring up my ex again. Every summer she has this super cool concert she 'had plans' to go to. England , Egypt ,Turkey. This girl wanted to go everywhere , but never brought herself up to doing it. She always had all these 'dreams' that she never really worked on accomplishing. So yeah , don't spend you $ foolishly.