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| Author: | Amonx9 [ Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Going out with gf isn't fun anymore. |
Good evening guys I'm in a serious LTR, 2,5 years. When my gf and me go out, we usually go out to her friends, since my friends are so-called "bad friends". This is ok for me. She has recently moved in with 3 girlfriends. My problem is the drama involved. It's all she talks about lately. This girl hooks up with this guy, then he kissed another girl, now what's going to happen, etc. (The soap drama, in real life). For example, if i ask her, hey what's new, after 2 days. It's not about her she talks, it's about some guy or girl who did something. I don't fucking care what other people do. When we go out, we rarely seem to have fun anymore, just observing other people. I hate it. If i react on it by saying "Now let's stop talking about other people", she's hurt. :/ Also i told her already i don't like gossip cause it just fills the ego. Her reaction: That's not true, i like it. *sigh* Any suggestions on this one? |
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| Author: | User13247 [ Sun Feb 17, 2013 10:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going out with gf isn't fun anymore. |
Let me surmise: Girlfriend wants you to do X. You tell her: 'I don't want to to X, because Y' She tells you: 'Y is untrue' You do X. The solution to your problem is extremely simple: don't do X. Just don't react to anything regarding what doesn't interest you, change the subject. |
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| Author: | pcorrigan [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 3:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going out with gf isn't fun anymore. |
The girl im seeing now does this alot as well. it doesn't really bother me though as I feel it only comes up when there is nothing else going on. |
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| Author: | MrGiggles [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 4:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going out with gf isn't fun anymore. |
Quote: Good evening guys
This kind of thing is typical of girls and their friends. Your best course of action is to remain as detached from her friends' bullshit as possible. It'd also be a good idea to either take your girlfriend out to someplace she's never been or find an activity that both of you can enjoy, and do that together. I think the two of you need to build bonds and make memories as a couple. She needs to take the energy she wastes on her friends' gossip and reinvest it in something else more worthwhile.I'm in a serious LTR, 2,5 years. When my gf and me go out, we usually go out to her friends, since my friends are so-called "bad friends". This is ok for me. She has recently moved in with 3 girlfriends. My problem is the drama involved. It's all she talks about lately. This girl hooks up with this guy, then he kissed another girl, now what's going to happen, etc. (The soap drama, in real life). For example, if i ask her, hey what's new, after 2 days. It's not about her she talks, it's about some guy or girl who did something. I don't fucking care what other people do. When we go out, we rarely seem to have fun anymore, just observing other people. I hate it. If i react on it by saying "Now let's stop talking about other people", she's hurt. :/ Also i told her already i don't like gossip cause it just fills the ego. Her reaction: That's not true, i like it. *sigh* Any suggestions on this one? I know how much it sucks to listen to a girl ramble on and on about people you've never met and don't give a shit about. And what I've said is what's worked for me. |
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