Hi everyone, i ll try to make my story short and understandable (english is my 2nd language) as possible.
I was in 2,5 years long relationship with girl that was my best female friend for few years longer. Relationship was quite good and we were making long term plans. However around last summer, things was going south so she asked for a break. I didnt want it but still didnt make any drama about it and just instantly went strict NC.
We didnt hear each other for about 4 months, and then she initiated contact and asked me for a drink. Firsty i simply rejected it, but she was persistent so we met a month later. There was a lot of chemistry in the air on our meeting but i told her that i dont want a relationship. But she became even more persistant, and literaly begged me back so after some time I fell for it and took her back. (i never lost feelings for her during our break).
At first she was rushing things fast but i didnt really have anything against it. So we had 1 month honeymoon phase.
And suddenly she started to act distant. She have lot of work so i wasnt really upset about it. But after some time i became a bit annoyed and called her for a drink and told her that i have full respect for her duties but that i would like to make some time for me also. She said ok, but only thing that changed was that she contacted me even less. So i told her that maybe we rushed things too fast so we should slow down and that I dont want her to feel pressured in relationship, and she agreed.
And after that, I didnt hear from her. I dont initiate contact either. So basicly we are now ignoring each other, even on IM when we are both online.
I m ready to move on, but still don t want to move on if there is any chance for repair things. So i guess waiting for her to initiate contact and show that she is willing to try to work out things between us is only possible solution?
Any advice is very much appriciated.
EDIT: forgot to mention that when we had our last conversation i openly asked her if she wants to continue relationship, and she told : yes without any hesitation.
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