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| Author: | sg777 [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 7:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Pzifer needs to make a pill for women! |
I've written about my gf, ex-gf, and now we are back together. Everything was great, no sex but I understood. Friday, the first day back together, I spent the night and she was very cuddly. Not a lot of kissing other then pecks. Saturday night, she came to my house and I cooked. Afterwards we laid in my bed and watched a movie, every time I moved, back was in pain, she'd grab me to hold her closer. Asked me a few times what I had planned for Sunday and I told her a run and playing it by ear after that. Now, here is where it all goes downhill. A friend of mine that I dated before this girl, a friend only, called. I didn't answer and told my gf who it was. This friend is extremely nice; she texts or calls in the morning and we text or call to say goodnight. She has a bf and she knows all about my situation. This girl was raised very traditional hispanic family and being kind to people is her nature. I have know this girl for 24 years and she has always been like this. Well, this girl texts good night, like normal, and I texted back and to tell her kid goodnight. GF made no big deal about it. Sunday comes and shit blows up. She is meeting a client, which I knew about, taking her kid to get their nails done and now she is meeting a friend at 7:30 that night but we can still each other before that. I called and we talked but she was a witch. Asked about her friend and she refused to tell me, finally got it out that it is a guy. That caused her to argue that my insecurity was ruining this relationship again. She also made it a point to tell me about my friend texting goodnight and me texting her back. I thought about it and texted her that it was rude of me and I shouldn't had done that. She berated me about how she doesn't care what I do or I who ever I do it with. I finally texted that I guess I have a lot to think about in this relationship and that she keeps me away, I'll be there for you but one day you might come back and I won't be around. No more texts and I decided to go to a movie and dinner. She texts finally to ask what I was doing. I told her I was getting ready to go eat and see a movie. She tells me she cancelled the meeting with her guy friend, I said cool and didn't ask why or bring it up. But, you guessed it, here comes the assumption I was going with someone because it is strange for a person to go by themselves. I do it all the time and reminded her that over Christmas I went to see The Hobbitt by myself. She still didn't believe me. Asked where I was going, told her the truth and it was across town, 30 miles away. She asked why and I told her one of my favorite Vietnamese places is over there, Again, who are you meeting for dinner, again I said no one. I left and enjoyed myself, I enjoy just me. Through the movie she texted but I didn't respond. Got out and texted her. we texted and she asked about someone being there again. Got close to home and she said her program was on TV and she'll call me later. I hadn't heard from her so I went to sleep. 10;30 she texted nite nite and then blew up about me taking my bottle of fish oil home from the side of her bed. I was sleeping and didn't hear her texts so at 10:48 she called. In my stupor I answered to her asking me what I am doing, I told her sleeping and she got upset that I didn't call her to say goodnight. Told her that she said she would call me later and she hadn't so I went to bed. She brought the pills and I told here that I probably put them in my bag the last time I spent the night, I have to drag around pills to deal with my PTSD from the war. She said I should just take all my stuff, I asked her if she doesn't want me to spend the night then let me know and I'll take my toothbrush, yes my toothbrush is the only thing there. She said no and wants me to spend the night. Her whole attitude has changed since the morning, she is concerned and very loving. For the first time in 3 weeks she blew me a kiss when we got off the phone. She also said she'd call me the next morning but I ended up texting her good morning. She said morning back and then later told me she was headed to work and for me to have a good day. Here's my question after all the long drawn out story. My friends are divided between her telling me another guy to make me jealous because my friend texted goodnight and she is seeing someone else. I side with the making me jealous and there really not be another guy. Felt like it was said in anger, especially after making a big deal about this girl texting me and me texting her. FYI, this girl texts every night but when I am with my GF I turn my phone to Do-Not-Disturb so I get no messages. What do y'all think? |
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| Author: | Rough Operator [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 4:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pzifer needs to make a pill for women! |
How old is she again? She sounds like a crazy 18 year old or something. You haven't done anything wrong whatsoever as far as I can tell. |
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| Author: | sg777 [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 8:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pzifer needs to make a pill for women! |
She is 37. Just feel like I am being strung along until she meets someone new or better. I can understand taking it slow to make things right but it seems as if she has taken 20 steps back. I don't if time will heal or if it is even worth putting in the time and effort. |
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