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| Author: | SemperFlyMC [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Fiance taking a break from me? |
I visited my fiance in Germany a few weeks ago, and it was a fun trip. Afterwards though we were immediately on the rocks because she feels in hindsight that we didn't talk, and just had sex all the time. I'm good in bed, but not 24 hours for 7 straight days good. So I don't know how she can think this. I was busy flying to Orlando last weekend, and partied once I got there. I had a few brief conversations with her, and said I'd call her so we could talk today. I didn't get around to it until 4:45pm, which is 11:45pm in Germany where she is. I call and she doesn't pick up until a few attempts. Already I know I'm in for some shit. She picks up only to say "I'm sleeping, and want to sleep." Then she messages me a moment later "I'm not talking to you." 15 minutes later I get a few more texts: "The only feeling inside me is anger right now." "I'm tired say the same thing every time." "I'm taking a break from you" I replied "wtf?" "I can't force you to pick up the phone and don't want to argue texting." "Ill probably just say something stupid that pisses you off more. So let me know when you're ready to talk then." she replied "Sure" Part of me just wants to say "I can't deal with this shit, it's over." It's a growing part of me too, considering I just was in Orlando, and never outside sight of several tens. She is honestly only like an 8, and I find myself wondering if I am short changing myself. She's probably one of a handful of women I've met with absolute morale values though, and I am just clinging to the hope that we will be good together again once we are no longer in a long distance relationship. Should I cling to this hope, or let her go? |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fiance taking a break from me? |
Quote: I visited my fiance in Germany a few weeks ago, and it was a fun trip. Afterwards though we were immediately on the rocks because she feels in hindsight that we didn't talk, and just had sex all the time. I'm good in bed, but not 24 hours for 7 straight days good. So I don't know how she can think this.
I understand what your going through(esp the moral values part) I stuck it out with my girl as we were in a long distance relationship for 3 months and I really questioned if I wanted to be with her and was very close to ending it, we're doing pretty good now. Its all about patience and how commited you guys are to making it work, you should talk it out with her and if shes going to keep being pissed off at you for no reason then break it off and maybe reestablish contact when shes back in the states
I was busy flying to Orlando last weekend, and partied once I got there. I had a few brief conversations with her, and said I'd call her so we could talk today. I didn't get around to it until 4:45pm, which is 11:45pm in Germany where she is. I call and she doesn't pick up until a few attempts. Already I know I'm in for some shit. She picks up only to say "I'm sleeping, and want to sleep." Then she messages me a moment later "I'm not talking to you." 15 minutes later I get a few more texts: "The only feeling inside me is anger right now." "I'm tired say the same thing every time." "I'm taking a break from you" I replied "wtf?" "I can't force you to pick up the phone and don't want to argue texting." "Ill probably just say something stupid that pisses you off more. So let me know when you're ready to talk then." she replied "Sure" Part of me just wants to say "I can't deal with this shit, it's over." It's a growing part of me too, considering I just was in Orlando, and never outside sight of several tens. She is honestly only like an 8, and I find myself wondering if I am short changing myself. She's probably one of a handful of women I've met with absolute morale values though, and I am just clinging to the hope that we will be good together again once we are no longer in a long distance relationship. Should I cling to this hope, or let her go? |
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| Author: | SemperFlyMC [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fiance taking a break from me? |
Thanks, she's not a US citizen so wont come back here unless it's on a fiance visa. I don't want her to come here for that, dropping her masters program there and find out in 3 months it isn't working out and send her packing though. It wouldn't be fair to her. I can't be constantly chasing her and calming her down right now either though. I'm in a critical phase of my career - these next 2 weeks basically determine if I become a pilot or not, and I've been training to fly for 2 years now. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 10:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fiance taking a break from me? |
Dude , I am extremely serious right now. If this girl gives you ANY form of shit during the next 2 weeks you will completely freeze her out. You will not engage in any conversation with her if you sense it might lead to a fight. I have seen ENOUGH guys fuck up their careers / exams / etc because their mind was filled with fuck by their women. My best friend was at a very nasty point with his girlfriend last year(it was near the final exams). He really wanted to brake up with her so badly ,he just couldn't stand her anymore. However , he did not do it until her exams were over and she had passed them. Although he nearly hated her , he didn't want to ruin her potential future,which is damn admirable. (it was a 3 year relationship) Anyway,the point of this story is that if she doesn't understand / care that her actions might affect the end result of your crucial two weeks , she's not worthy of you. Simple.as.that. |
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