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Author:  tdb183 [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 6:45 pm ]
Post subject:  dating a girl and she's letting me down after the 2nd date??
Hey am 19 and I've been seeing a girl and on our 2nd date she asked me to be her boyfriend. To which I said yes. Now the 3rd was this friday and she's let me down and sold me out. It hurts like a bitch to be honist. But what should I do guys? Just pretend its ok or try to explain my discomfort with being treated that way?
Author:  R.C [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 6:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dating a girl and she's letting me down after the 2nd da
You need to be more explicit if you expect a good answer. How did she sell out / let you down exactly ?
Author:  tdb183 [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 6:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dating a girl and she's letting me down after the 2nd da
Well she lives like a 45 minute drive away but where she works is inbetween our houses. Practically half way. So we was gonna meet friday and she was gonna stay ova weekend at mine. But now she totally doing the opposite. She going out with friends a stuff even tho she told me she was coming mine for the weekend befor she planned this with her friends. Feel like I've been left out coz she got a better offer and sold me out. :(
Author:  tdb183 [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dating a girl and she's letting me down after the 2nd da
Its a pet hate sellouts can't stand them. I'd never do it to her. If my mates asked me out I'd tell them no am busy. But she can't??? Don't no what to do. Do I tell her how I feel?
Author:  R.C [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 7:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dating a girl and she's letting me down after the 2nd da
Well , here's the deal.

You said she asked you to be her boyfriend..so I assume she's interested / attracted to you. If this is the case I don't think she's really selling out.

How did she say that she's canceling plans ? did she seem sorry ? did she seem to not give a fuck about it ?

I usually believe in giving people a second chance if I feel they deserve it. Do you feel she deserves it ?
Author:  tdb183 [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 7:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dating a girl and she's letting me down after the 2nd da
No she wernt sorry she just told me she going her mates. You no what am finking its a shit test. Am probs failing miserbly. But fuck her I will give her another chance but do u fink I shud be alpha and try and tell her its not on and next time it needs to change. You organise sumfin with me u don't piss me about?
Author:  R.C [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 7:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dating a girl and she's letting me down after the 2nd da
If she's not sorry about it then she doesn't deserve another chance.

It's not a shit test. A shit test is a question / a demand or a hostile comment.

Personally ,I would next her. I really don't like people that suddenly decide to cancel plans for no good reason.

I dislike people who can't even organize their time , let alone something else.

Plus , why be with someone who starts dissapointing after only 2 dates ?

There's better fish out there.
Author:  Rough Operator [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 10:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: dating a girl and she's letting me down after the 2nd da
I dunno if I would next her right away, but I wouldn't act butthurt or affected by her canceling.

However I would be a bit questionable of a girl who asked me to be her bf on the second date... Make sure you're gaming other women is my advice bro.
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