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| Author: | raiske [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 3:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Not sure what to do with long term relationship |
I don't know how to get out of a relationship. Been together for 4 years now. I'm passive aggressive so I kind of just been riding the wave. I think I'm more scared of breaking her heart. Any advice? Thanks. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 4:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not sure what to do with long term relationship |
Why do you wanna end it ? Just be truthful. Tell her your reasons. You dont wanna brake her heart ? "I don't feel for you the way I used to.I prefer to end it now , because if I dont I know I'll just end up hurting you and I don't want that to happen." |
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| Author: | raiske [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 5:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not sure what to do with long term relationship |
I'm not sure why I'd want to end it. I think I'm not ready to settle down. She has this mindset that we're getting married. She's always sick. So that's not a good sign for the future. |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 6:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not sure what to do with long term relationship |
Be direct and truthful with her and cut off contact because the more you talk to her after you do it your going to be drawn to getting back with her, just make sure you want to do this before you do it 4 years is a long time |
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| Author: | Sh4rp [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 7:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Not sure what to do with long term relationship |
Quote: I'm not sure why I'd want to end it. I think I'm not ready to settle down. She has this mindset that we're getting married.
Figure out why you want to end it. Don't just say "I think _____" Four years is longer than anything I've ever been in and before you throw that down the toilet you should know why you want to end it. Try to bring it up with her a mediate. Be like "Hey, we've been in this relationship for four years now, and I'm bored of the same routine, can we incorporate some crazier sex or maybe another partner for a couple of weeks?"
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