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| Author: | David12353 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:58 am ] |
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Hey guys I met a girl at the start of uni about 14 weeks ago, we hit it off straight away. However she had a bf of two years. I kept going round to her room and we chatted, this eventually lead to a kiss about 8 weeks ago.....she split with her bf and we were "seeing each other" we split up for the holidays 4 weeks ago and at the start it was the same as ever her wanting me to come visit her...I went away skiing at the start of this week and sent her an email to which I got a reply same day, we also chatted on Facebook. I then emailed her the next day and haven't had a reply for 3 days, plus no reply to my Facebook message when I know for a fact she has been online same time as me. I will be seeing her again in one week? Should I be worried, should I try to contact her again or freeze her till I'm back at uni?? |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 6:49 pm ] |
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Freeze out. Leave her alone. Make yourself busy, have fun, do what interests you. Stop obsessing over when she is going to reply or what it means. It means she isn't interested. Best thing you can do to reignite her interest is be fun, cool, and high value without her. |
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| Author: | David12353 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:24 pm ] |
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True, she had been interested though just before the second email...nm I'll see her in a week win her back with ease |
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| Author: | David12353 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:39 pm ] |
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I called her "pretty awesome" would that have pissed her off |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:40 pm ] |
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Calling someone pretty awesome usually won't piss them off. But if you said it all weird or something when you don't know her well enough to even know if she's awesome, then it can have a detrimental effect. |
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| Author: | David12353 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:50 pm ] |
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I Definately know her well enough to make that judgement. How should I play it when I meet her. I was going to take her for a meal, she was down for that in the first email. Then no reply, should I sack off the meal?? |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 4:58 am ] |
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Don't talk to her, don't ask her what she wants to do. Just tell her she's on a need to know basis, and right now, she does not need to know if/when she asks. Lead her. Make a decision on what you're going to do, and do it. |
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| Author: | David12353 [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 7:55 am ] |
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I gave in and messages her on fb again and got a reply, good news she said she had been really busy with assignments and stuff....I'm now going to ignore her till I get back to uni on Wednesday which is 5 days away.....too long?? |
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| Author: | league [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 9:00 am ] |
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its not too long if you are actually gonna be busy in that time, find something to take your time up |
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| Author: | David12353 [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 10:37 am ] |
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I need to improve my inner game sat around doing nothing so I messages her....no reply. Was a bad move..... |
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