My girlfriend of 4 months, in the past few days has been behaving suspiciously, and I had the impression a breakup was coming.
So I took the horse and I stirred it over.
This is the text convo I had with her last night, the night of the breakup:
Me: "May I ask you... Have you been thinking about breaking up with me? I had this gut feeling in the past few days"
Her: "Sorry, I was downstairs folding my 3 loads of laundry"
--- no answer for an hour ---
Me: "So? Can you please answer me? The waiting is killing me
"Her: "I'm sorry we can talk about it tomorrow"
Her: "This isn't a conversation to have over text or phone"
Me: "well, that's ok we both know where this is going. I don't need to get the "talk" anyway."
Me: "Let's get this over with and move on... Agreed?"
Her: "Well, if you don't want to talk about, ok"
Her: "I'm sorry it came up like this"
Me: "Talking is not going to solve anything anyway"
Me: "You're a wonderful girl and you'll find someone else that will make you happy. And i'm a great guy... I'll get by
"Her: "High quality
"Me: "We had a good run though ahah"
Her: "We did
"Me: "Goodnight
"Her: "Goodnight (=I"
Now, I didn't meant to do all that on purpose, it just came out. But reading it afterwards it came up to me a couple of considerations:
1) this might be the smoothest breakup ever for her (for sure it was for me, quite surprisingly!)... also done 100% by text... That's unusual too...
2) there was no "fight" - actually we did never fight in the 4 months relationship
3) She might be quite surprised from my reaction and how I handled the situation
Given the fact that I will meet her again for sure, in the long run might this turn into a fuckbuddy?
After all, our relationship was very fuckbuddy-alike rather than the classical "boyfriend-girlfriend" (more about sex and less about going out having fun together)
Considerations?