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| Author: | l3tsp1ckUp [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 12:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Hitting a wall, need help |
So some backround about me and my girlfriend before i get into the issue is, we have been together for 5 months and 1 month "officially" and we do alot of fun things like go bowling, movies at my house, tabogoning (something she wanted to do). Our conversations use to be great making a lot of jokes, teasing each other, etc. until the problem started.. The problem first started because her parents have an extreme hate for me, they want her to have absolutely nothing to do with me. So everyday they bug her about leaving me and just add a fuckload of stress onto her and me.. This past week she hasn't been acting like herself at all, she doesn't wanna come hangout because she doesn't wanna get yelled at by her parents, shes ignoring my messages i send her and doesn't want to give me calls.. i feel like im losing a grip on this relationship. I need help on how to keep this relationship going so it doesn't end badly soon.. |
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| Author: | Midrange [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 1:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hitting a wall, need help |
why do her parents hate you? I think you need to get that figured out. |
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| Author: | l3tsp1ckUp [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 12:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hitting a wall, need help |
honestly, they hate me for absolutely nothing. from "experience" they know that i'm not trustworthy and i would hurt her.. and I try my best to impress them and even talk to them about it but it never seems to work. |
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| Author: | vhou812 [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 8:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hitting a wall, need help |
Some parents will always be like that about their baby girl. Is she an only child? If you've done your due diligence, and you're losing your grip, I would suggest this. Meet with both of them and have it out. By both of them, I mean both her parents, whether she is there or not doesn't matter. I also have no clue how old this chick is either. But in a nutshell, I would tell them you think your relationship with her is on the brink or ending, because of them, not because you want it to, or she want's it to, or even because it should. Tell them you're a great guy, and you know you are, and you know that you treat her as well as anybody ever will, and if that's not good enough for them, then they need help, because that's all they should want for their daughter in this department. In the end, no matter how cool she is, don't worry about letting this one go. If she won't choose you over them, and they don't come around, you're better off removed from the situation anyways. |
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