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Author:  Adapting Love [ Tue Jan 01, 2013 9:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Relationship Balance
So, now I have a girlfriend - my second over the course of one year. But now we're seperate due to holiday. I joke over texts (1-3 times everyday) and from time to time tell and ask her things. I'm being as little needy as possible. I've told her I missed her, and write little flirtings and keep a light, good tone; simply to talk, miss eachother and build suspense.

My question is: How do I maintain this relationship? Both over text/internet (now that we're apart), and when we meet up again in two weeks. Is the key massive confidence (of course it is, but leading to;) in the form of making her comfortable with us being together in public? Nobody knows about us yet, as we got together (as girlfriend/boyfriend) the day before we both left Spain.

The place where I completely lack a plan & confidence is at this stage; relationship. Some guideance is appreciated.
Author:  Heartnet [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 12:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship Balance
Best way to do it, I call it the "S.H.I.T." Method
So you show high interest then you stall.
You probably had amazing dates together, good memories or inside jokes.
Go back to those places with some other friends or if you are doing a cool activities, send her pictures.
"remember we did this, you were so funny etc..."
"man I just did... the other day and we must go try it once you are back."

do future projection the more you can. This will show that you have high interest but you are keeping yourself busy in the same time.

If you are the only one investing time and energy into it, then you are doing it wrong. Make her invest.
Also do you make her fell the hole range of emotion, not just cheesiness. Make drama for no reason then brush it off as a joke.
Make it sexual then call her out that she is dirty.

I hope both little tips helped.

Cheers!
Author:  Adapting Love [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 1:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship Balance
Sweet! I will. Thanks for the advice. Any advice on what to do when we acctually meet up again? How should I approach? Should I approach her as if i've been missing her, or as if it's just decent to be back? Should I be witty and build rapport at once? Like... how? I'm not gonna overthink it, I just want to know how other people look at the situation so that i can develop my game further.

And no, she invests as well. Sent me pictures several times doing the things you just told me to do. And the sexual teasing is something I've been doing as well. I will, however, try some of that future projection.

I think my game's pretty good with this girl :) I feel I'm pretty decent at the attraction, rapport and seduction phases. My great, great flaw is relationships - because I've never been in a proper (nor long) one. It makes me nervous.
Author:  Heartnet [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 2:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship Balance
honestly when you see her, nature will take care of themselves.
I had a FwB that went to HongKong for 2 months and when she came back and we see each other and trust me we make out from the airport all the way to the bedroom.
Author:  Adapting Love [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 2:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship Balance
That I shall! She's very nervous though when she's in a relationship, so I need some tactic to comfort her very quick. I suppose it will come along naturally as well. I'm good at comfort. I overthink too much. OCD kicking in!
Author:  Heartnet [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 7:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Relationship Balance
A good point to see if the relationship is going well, is that you can fit just ok with her friends.
That one of the thing I cant do yet with some of my FwB.
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