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Author:  Jug [ Tue Jan 01, 2013 8:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Need help quick!

Their is this girl and shes been a extremely close friend for about a year, for the past couple monthes i've been pushing subtlely to make it into something more and she made it seem like she wanted more too.

Two days ago:
We watched a movie with a group of friends and her and I were sitting next to each other with arms touching and just close the entire time which normally were not because before we were just friends, So I got over the touch barrier which was good

Yesterday we both went to a new years eve party and I was the centre of attention within her group of friends, We were holding hands and I had my arm around her for part of the night and then at midnight she pointed to her lips and told me to kiss her so I did and we made out for a few seconds. Except she did that with a couple other guys except only pecks. Than this morning I wasnt sure whether she did that just because it was new years and she had a couple drinks (not super drunk (I wouldnt have kissed her if she was because thats not something I want to do)) So I texted her asking "Was that kiss real or was it just the alcohol acting" She replied saying she wasnt sure but she wanted to kiss me otherwise she wouldnt have"

Today We hung out and went tobboganing and she just kinda avoided me most of the time and didnt laugh at my jokes (She always comments about how halarious I am)

Any advice should I text her asking what the deal is? Please help, I want this to work out as more than friends. Were both 17 by the way. (Im new to game but the tips I've been doing have helped greatly)

Author:  Rough Operator [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 6:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need help quick!

Don't make a big deal out of it and don't act like it meant too much to you.

Just be totally cool with the situation and your usual self. Being totally cool with it also means being totally cool with the eventuality that you might just be in the friendzone still.

Author:  Langlo [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 9:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need help quick!

Do not text asking "what the deal is?" What ever you do. For 2 reason I'll tell you why. Reason number one and most importantly; You already know what the deal is(in a sec you will). That's the biggest thing. Remember you know exactly what's going on, and you're not confused by what happened, what you're going to do about it, and will not be surprised by, nor unprepared for anything that could happen in the future.

So what IS the deal..."Was that kiss real or was it just the alcohol acting"... what the heck are you trying to ask her?... Was that kiss real?!? You could have just asked me that. Yes, you really did kiss her, it happened in real life, it wasn't a dream. But that's not what you really want to know, I have no idea what your asking, she has no idea, you have no idea, sounds awkward and uncomfortable. She gave you the best answer she could. "I'm not sure(what you're really asking me) but I wanted to kiss you." DON'T make it more awkward and uncomfortable, just drop it because of reason number 2.

She WANTED to kiss you. If you feel like you "Need help quick!" you're anxious.. Relax and play-on playa. The more you ask her to get rid of your anxiety the more uncomfortable she will feel around you.

What you should have texted her the next day was something like "hope last night wont be just a yearly thing ;)" You would have got a similar answer "i dont know hehe" but this time you're having fun.

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