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Author:  Lost508 [ Thu Dec 20, 2012 7:26 am ]
Post subject:  Looking for some help..fast

Just broke of a two month relationship that we moved fast in( to the point of sleeping with her for a lot of the nights of these two months ). it was mostly one sided because i didnt realize how much her previous four year relationship affected her ( it was abusive) . he would physical and emotionally torture her.

she continually told me she wanted me and loved me but never really showed it. things slowed down when she started to be distant ( it went from three times a week to once a week). i brought this issue up calmly we came to the conclusion that she values loneliness over me and that i would never understand her. i couldnt stand it being in a one-sided relationship anymore and broke it off with this after trying to show her how much i want to be there for her and her being unresponsive and rejecting me from her heart.

" I understand why you like to be alone because no matter what you aways have yourself in the end. good bye and thank you for the memories we made (: "

to note;
this was over text because she wouldnt see me in person about this
this is my second relationship that i wanted to be in
i do realise i have other options and chose her over a lot of the women in my life
i have my own life and never wanted to lose my "identity" with her
happened tonight 12/19


i have a job interview in about 14 hours and dont want it leeking into something that can influence my capital.

i would like your guys opinion on what i should do

thanks for your time and i appreciate it.

Author:  Fragger [ Thu Dec 20, 2012 7:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Looking for some help..fast

Just forget about her. It was your decision to finally break up with her and right now you got an interview coming up so focus on that.

Author:  Lost508 [ Thu Dec 20, 2012 9:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Looking for some help..fast

Thanks fragger i appreciated that.

i realised i was in a emotional state when i wrote that and came to the conclusion with myself being happier without her.

currently focused on ten things that i can do to improve my overall quality of life and plan on doing them along with writing down what I liked about her and didn't so i could guide myself on the right path to a women i truly will be able to fall in love with.

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