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Author:  Furiox [ Wed Dec 12, 2012 11:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Are you serious? Love and girls are a funny thing.
Havent been here in 6 months or so because i found the girl of my dreams after having a 2 month relationship with a freak.

She is sweet, kind, pretty, funny, virgin and fits me perfectly in many ways so i thought i hit the jackpot.
For 5 months of never having a single argument with her i am starting to get frustrated with things and getting more insecure. Last night we had a bit of a first argument in 5 months.

Basically we meet up every tuesday,thursday and usually the weekend but during the week she always needs to be home at 10:15. Last night she denied sex to me with the reason: "we dont have to have sex everytime". ( you might think we have sex always and everywhere but this is not the case, we actually only have sex when were at my place cause of her parents. 2/3 times a month and if iam lucky 4/5. I told her this in a bit of a joky matter and she did not respond.

So we were laying in bed like always watching tv without any clothes on except our underwear. It was getting time to go as she needs to be home at 10:15, i was super frustrated that i did not get sex and drove her home really fast without saying to much, when i dropped her at her place i said bye.

Later that night she send me a SPAM, is something wrong? Did i say something wrong? So i told her i was getting tired of her parrents rules about being home at 10:15... i did not mention the low sex life we have because it feels weak to tell her that... opinions?

So my perfect relationship of almost 6 months seem not so perfect anymore, she always tells me how much she loves me and i do the same but from experience i know what a girl says can change the next day.

Any ideas or experience on getting my sex life back on track.... and the time thing.

Some info that might help you understand the situation better:

Were both young, shes 18, iam 21.

Her father had a stroke 4 months ago but recovered pretty good and i was there for her the whole time and now her mom is getting an operation tommorow so this might have played a role in our relationship....

Thanks for reading!
Author:  vhou812 [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 5:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are you serious? Love and girls are a funny thing.
Quote:
Havent been here in 6 months or so because i found the girl of my dreams after having a 2 month relationship with a freak.

She is sweet, kind, pretty, funny, virgin and fits me perfectly in many ways so i thought i hit the jackpot.
For 5 months of never having a single argument with her i am starting to get frustrated with things and getting more insecure. Last night we had a bit of a first argument in 5 months.

Basically we meet up every tuesday,thursday and usually the weekend but during the week she always needs to be home at 10:15. Last night she denied sex to me with the reason: "we dont have to have sex everytime". ( you might think we have sex always and everywhere but this is not the case, we actually only have sex when were at my place cause of her parents. 2/3 times a month and if iam lucky 4/5. I told her this in a bit of a joky matter and she did not respond.

So we were laying in bed like always watching tv without any clothes on except our underwear. It was getting time to go as she needs to be home at 10:15, i was super frustrated that i did not get sex and drove her home really fast without saying to much, when i dropped her at her place i said bye.

Later that night she send me a SPAM, is something wrong? Did i say something wrong? So i told her i was getting tired of her parrents rules about being home at 10:15... i did not mention the low sex life we have because it feels weak to tell her that... opinions?

So my perfect relationship of almost 6 months seem not so perfect anymore, she always tells me how much she loves me and i do the same but from experience i know what a girl says can change the next day.

Any ideas or experience on getting my sex life back on track.... and the time thing.

Some info that might help you understand the situation better:

Were both young, shes 18, iam 21.

Her father had a stroke 4 months ago but recovered pretty good and i was there for her the whole time and now her mom is getting an operation tommorow so this might have played a role in our relationship....

Thanks for reading!
Don't fuck with her and pretend the problem is something it's not. Tell her you were frustrated because sex is important to you. Pretending other things are the problem will not make your relationship better.
Author:  Furiox [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 9:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are you serious? Love and girls are a funny thing.
Ok thank you guys for the answers,

Communication can definatly be better but she goes defensive saying its all her fault while in reality it is but for me to say it like that sucks.

Yea next time it happens i will tell her that sex is important to me.
Author:  vhou812 [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 10:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Are you serious? Love and girls are a funny thing.
Some people will get defensive, sometimes it could just be the way you say what you're saying.

Make sure you deliver the message in as non accusing way as you can. You wanted sex, she did not. It's a common issue in relationships. Perhaps it's too important for both of you and she's not right for you. Perhaps you can find a solution. That will work itself out eventually.

But not telling her what is really bothering you will not fix the problem.

Good luck.
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