PUA Forum :: Zoned: From BF-like to FB

I've been dating my 20yr old roomate for a while.
I live in a 6 people student-house and she was new in Berlin (Germany).
After 1 month of really slow game, cause she was travelling a lot mainly, i f-closed with her.
Then we started having a relationship-kinda thing but we never said directly that we were together.
Last week was really awesome sexually and emotionally.
On Monday she totally freaked out saying she doesnt want a relationship and stuff.
I think I did really good game, without being needy but she doesnt want to feel responsable.
Pretty sure there is no other male involved.
Today we spoke again and I told her that she had to decide, at the end of the conversation she
said she wants fun and being fuckbuddies.
I can agree with that, Im just really scared of consequences.
I think she gets really emotional when I am around and she trades emotions for sex.
I think that at the end we will not be fuckbuddies but something in the between.
I really like this girl and I know that she will get emotional again, she really doesn't want to cut this thing.
Being friends is out of discussion I showed her in the middle of the conversation I started undressing her and we had sex.

I'm gonna date another girl today, I would like to keep the roommate to have fun without having to worry about her like a BF.
How do I play this?
Also, how should I play for LTR in case I realize I'm getting emotional?

Author:	8thouse [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 4:45 pm ]
Post subject:	Zoned: From BF-like to FB
I've been dating my 20yr old roomate for a while. I live in a 6 people student-house and she was new in Berlin (Germany). After 1 month of really slow game, cause she was travelling a lot mainly, i f-closed with her. Then we started having a relationship-kinda thing but we never said directly that we were together. Last week was really awesome sexually and emotionally. On Monday she totally freaked out saying she doesnt want a relationship and stuff. I think I did really good game, without being needy but she doesnt want to feel responsable. Pretty sure there is no other male involved. Today we spoke again and I told her that she had to decide, at the end of the conversation she said she wants fun and being fuckbuddies. I can agree with that, Im just really scared of consequences. I think she gets really emotional when I am around and she trades emotions for sex. I think that at the end we will not be fuckbuddies but something in the between. I really like this girl and I know that she will get emotional again, she really doesn't want to cut this thing. Being friends is out of discussion I showed her in the middle of the conversation I started undressing her and we had sex. I'm gonna date another girl today, I would like to keep the roommate to have fun without having to worry about her like a BF. How do I play this? Also, how should I play for LTR in case I realize I'm getting emotional?

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 5:41 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Zoned: From BF-like to FB
Quote: I've been dating my 20yr old roomate for a while. I live in a 6 people student-house and she was new in Berlin (Germany). After 1 month of really slow game, cause she was travelling a lot mainly, i f-closed with her. Then we started having a relationship-kinda thing but we never said directly that we were together. Last week was really awesome sexually and emotionally. On Monday she totally freaked out saying she doesnt want a relationship and stuff. I think I did really good game, without being needy but she doesnt want to feel responsable. Pretty sure there is no other male involved. Today we spoke again and I told her that she had to decide, at the end of the conversation she said she wants fun and being fuckbuddies. I can agree with that, Im just really scared of consequences. I think she gets really emotional when I am around and she trades emotions for sex. I think that at the end we will not be fuckbuddies but something in the between. I really like this girl and I know that she will get emotional again, she really doesn't want to cut this thing. Being friends is out of discussion I showed her in the middle of the conversation I started undressing her and we had sex. I'm gonna date another girl today, I would like to keep the roommate to have fun without having to worry about her like a BF. How do I play this? Also, how should I play for LTR in case I realize I'm getting emotional? Here are some signs your about to fuck this up Bro; You start thinking “I don’t want to play games with this chick anymore. I like her. Why can’t I just let her know how I FEEL.” You think “She definitely likes me. I don't think she would pay any attention to other men gaming her, We’re past that point, I no longer need to play games.” You think “This girl is different, she may be the ONE.” SHE IS NOT DIFFERENT. She still wants to chase you. She still wants a challenge. She still wants a guy she can't quite figure out. Your doing well on your own, undressing and having sex with her dead in the middle of her emotional venting! Now that was rock solid GOLD Bro, your dick is now embedded deep into her emotional filing cabinet! I'm not saying be an emotionless POS, But keep them in check! Respond to her emotions in kind, and VERY sparingly ~ not in advance. She gave you a hall pass Bro, use it!

Author:	8thouse [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 6:03 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Zoned: From BF-like to FB
Quote: You start thinking “I don’t want to play games with this chick anymore. I like her. Why can’t I just let her know how I FEEL.” You think “She definitely likes me. I don't think she would pay any attention to other men gaming her, We’re past that point, I no longer need to play games.” You think “This girl is different, she may be the ONE.” SHE IS NOT DIFFERENT. She still wants to chase you. She still wants a challenge. She still wants a guy she can't quite figure out. She gave you a hall pass Bro, use it! You got exactly the point, I was really fucking AFC for some reason. Accepting her, being the good boy, not giving her challenges (also cause we live together). Sometimes my inner game just gets fucked up, especially with a girl I have to see every day.. She DOES pay attention to other guys gaming her, but they are so bad that she doesn't feel them attractive. I don't want to leave this game cause it's making me grow faster. Once upon I time I would cry the shit out of it if a girl was saying something like this to me. Now I'm just on a pickup forum and I'm dating a new girl in few hours. Plus the undressing thing was super. She loved it, and after it she was pure HAPPINESS. Any advice how should I act at this point? Freeze for some day, going in her room naked, disappear for a while? I cant really figure out!

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Zoned: From BF-like to FB
Just be calm, slick.... You need to almost impossible to read. Every time you part company she should be wondering WTF? She should be wondering how much you like her or even if you do. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls. Leave that an air of mystery, certainly don't rub it in. That is the art of the chase Bro. The more time she sits around wondering what you’re doing… the more she begins to convince herself she is in love/lust with you. Don't freeze, but don't slobber over her either! Try this casual encounter, as a "roomy". Walk in her room, half dressed, with a toothbrush hanging out of your face. Lock eyes with her. look down at her boobs, back to her eyes, lock on. Say "I need some floss/mouthwash, can you help me out?" then touch your junk. And smile like you know the best secret ever.

Author:	8thouse [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 7:19 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Zoned: From BF-like to FB
Well the first weekend we don't spend together since Halloween is just happening I'll give her some thrilling action the next days. Plus she has an ugly friend visiting. I know how to act in the flat, now she's really turned on I think is easier getting sex. I'll stop PDA, small kisses, and all this AFC stuff, I'll just go with the flow... She's back now and she started teasing me and shittesting as well. Updates soon Thanks

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Author:	8thouse [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 10:55 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Zoned: From BF-like to FB
So.. Saturday morning I came back at 8am, saw her in the kitchen and kissed her. She acted normal but a little bit confused. Now she spends time with her friend that is gonna leave on Wed, then she is gonna leave as well for the weekend and come back with another friend (her best friend, with I fortunately connected pretty well) till my vacation time that I will not spend here. My question is, is it possible that she panicked because she thought that she was going to be stuck with me even if her friends were around? This practically means no sex till the end of the month. I acted megacalm and smily, but I can feel how she's asking herself questions. Even if it's a good way to recover from this oneitis feeling that is growing into me, it will also block anything for a quite long time.. I'm scared to loose the connection I've got till now. How should I play it? How can I be the guy she has to chase if she's totally distracted? Other updates: She is freezing me out. Watching movie with other roomies, not giving me attentions when i get in the room, etc. Started talking with her, she reminded me how I had to wash dishes and other stupid things to annoy me even more. I acted like I didn't care when she got too much I told her to not act hostile. She is really hardcore gaming, I guess she interpreted as needy various requests of attention I did during this month and now I am paying consequences. Is this shittesting? Or loss of interest?

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