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Author:  l3tsp1ckUp [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 3:05 pm ]
Post subject:  orbitter pissing me off
So me and my girl have been together for 2 months and there is this guy who is constantly hitting on her. Just recently he actually asked her out to lunch but she said no. But now she wont even hold my hand infrontvof him and walka him to his classes and does not walk with me. Shouls i fuck this kid up or how do i handle this
Author:  steadmanralph [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 3:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: orbitter pissing me off
fuck that bitchhh upppp! lol
Author:  l3tsp1ckUp [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 8:47 pm ]
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no honestly though, how do i handle this without losing my girl.. this guy is really getting on my nerves and i do have anger management problems so if i do snap hes screwed aha
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 5:02 am ]
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The advice above is good. Your gf is the one who isn't walking with you so she's the one you should be concerned with
Author:  -enjoi- [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 6:17 am ]
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so you've got another pua coming after your girl? what would you do in a set of girls when an AMOG comes around?

It's the same situation. You don't need to fuck him up, violence won't help. Just establish yourself with higher value, and spend time around this guy. I know it seems counter-intuitive but the best thing you can do is make sure that while your girlfriend is with him, you're there, establishing your dominance.

I'd suggest showing that you control the frame of the interaction when you're with him and the peer group. No need to be an ass to him, be friendly. While being nice to him, heavy kino on your girlfriend... touching her back, touching her arm ect. You're the boyfriend, not him.

If you shy away and let this shit persist you won't walk away the winner.
Author:  league [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 6:26 pm ]
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under no circumstances would i let my girl know i'm pissed about this guy if she hasn't done anything wrong, that only makes him look better.

You need to act like you don't give a shit and i'm pretty sure he will go away, get it in your head that you are better then him so he is no threat to you
Author:  neo87 [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 3:53 am ]
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Lol your girl is not holding your hand because of another guy???!?! You're getting disrespected and played by this girl
Author:  MrMatt [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 4:37 am ]
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Quote:
Lol your girl is not holding your hand because of another guy???!?! You're getting disrespected and played by this girl
+1
Author:  Junglepimp [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 4:09 pm ]
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1. Tell her to cease contact with this guy, simply because you don't think he's the kind of a guy she should be hanging around with. (Please don't give me the "act all cool cuz you da alpha male who is unfettered by the presence of any other guy). NO. You have a self esteem and you do not tolerate stupid fucks who're trying to fuck around with your monogamous relationship.

2. Ask him to get lost and not show up again because, well, you don't want him around her.

If she still messes around with him, it's time to dump her, which is absolutely okay. If it's just him messing around, well man up and get rid of him.

Remember, you're only asking her to stay away from someone you don't think is fit enough. You're not asking her to cut contact with her best friend or just any other non-threatening guy, so it's alright to do this.
Author:  Xeydo [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 12:12 pm ]
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^ This advice is pretty bad
Been there, done that. Telling her to cut contact with this guy gives him a high value..
I'd do something like this:

*you and your girlfriend walk in to a bar/whatever*
Orbiter: HEY HB HOW ARE YOU
You: (before your girlfriend has a chance to say anything) Hey dude what's up.
Now you go back and engage conversation to your girlfriend before he has a chance to say anything, as if you have something really important to say

If he continues trying to talk to her, you should tell him (loudly) - Dude, I'm not into you. Now stop staring at my crotch.
*grab girlfriend and walk away* - You: this guy is creepy, let's get out of here

Hope you got the basic idea. Your goal is to make him look like a low-valued gay creep.
Author:  Junglepimp [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 12:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: orbitter pissing me off
I suggest a confrontation in the event that you have an better frame than hers already. If not, of course, establish a better frame than her's and the guy's, first. If yes, it's time to take a no-bs measure.
Author:  vhou812 [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 4:16 pm ]
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I disagree with Junglepimp's response too.

By acknowledging him and asking her to to something all you are doing is helping him establish high value.

The advice above talking about engaging in kino while he is around and you are there is sound advice. Make sure that you are not being clingy.

Depending on how close you are with your girl, and her personality, I would also consider the direct approach. Do not make him the center of the focus. Only bring up the fact that you noticed that she did not hold your hand like normal. Ask her if this is because she is ashamed to be with you. She naturally will inquire why and insinuate it is because of him. My response would be that what it really amounts to is that you like holding your woman's hand regardless of who the hell is watching, and you want her to be comfortable doing so as well. If she is not, then you want to understand why that is so you can put the issue behind you. This will work well with a woman who is more emotionally mature, because she'll recognize that you're not just playing stupid games and that you take the relationship and it's small nuances seriously, which is a form of showing her you care about her.

The last thing I would do is something stupid to acknowledge that this guy is a perceived threat.
Author:  Junglepimp [ Fri Dec 07, 2012 4:23 pm ]
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Alright :) Criticism well accepted.
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