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She's stubborn, so am I. I can feel she likes me a lot, she can probably feel I feel the same way about her.
Today, our mutual friend (and her 2nd best female friend) talked to me, telling me we two are a perfect fit and that I should make the move. She "would hate you and xxx to wait for too long and end up alone". She says she knows I like her friend a lot. She also says "if there are two people who like each other like you do, they shouldn't play these little games,step up and let the other one know" Then she tries to persuade me to make the move by saying things like "Well, she might meet someone else every day, so better be quick about it." I took that one as a failed attempt to make me do what she wishes.
I guess that these two talk a lot about me. Is it possible that the girl I'm seeing for nearly 3 months told her she'd like a relationship and her friend has decided to "test the waters" for her? Is she trying to give me a hint? She wouldn't be doing this out of a boredom, right? I know that this "mediator" girl used to have a crush on me but these days are gone.
Now some things that make me consider to bring the talk:
- With the girl I'm seeing for 3 months, we told each other we like the other one a lot after one hot sex session.
- Everytime I tell her I want to spend time with her, she's available (with one exception, but she was sick at the time)
- She told me she found a job to make money so she can travel with me when the semester is over. (This one sounds like she is making future plans with me)
What is your advice? I'm really contemplating to step up, tell her that I like her and I want to try how things work out if we are exclusive. She knows I'm not coming from land of scarcity, I've got a couple of girls in my rotation right now. I think it doesn't necessarily have to make me look weaker, especially when I deliver it confidently.