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| Author: | User_bmr [ Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Natural friend having problems with girlfriends family |
I'm here today to present a complicated problem with a close friend. His girlfriend lives in a small village and is being striked with insults and lies from her neighbourhood about having an affair. Her family is believing these lies, and they're crushing her and him, and trying to destroy his relationship with her. He got himself in the middle of the mess by telephone and argued with her family, something natural of a boyfriend, protecting his close ones. Conclusion: She got mad with him and her family, and like any human being, when mad is hard to tell everything we think of the situation, especially with loved ones, because they think its risky and they can loose someone. So... is this because of the stress from my friend's part which shows DLV? Low attraction levels? Low confort levels? PS: they live far away from each other and they contact themselves through webcams and he visits her on a monthly basis. PPS: i know closely his girlfriend, she has a very mature mind, i would give my whole honesty to say, she doesnt cheat |
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| Author: | Acadien [ Sun Nov 25, 2012 3:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Natural friend having problems with girlfriends family |
You need to let them fix their own problems. It's an unhealthy habit to make other peoples problem your own. All you can do is talk them them if they reach for help. |
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| Author: | User_bmr [ Sun Nov 25, 2012 4:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Natural friend having problems with girlfriends family |
the thing is im the only one he reached for this problem because he knows what i do (pickup). i'm not good in long term relationships, so i told him i would post something about his problem and see the opinions with other puas |
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| Author: | andyredsox [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 6:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Natural friend having problems with girlfriends family |
Well, if they've been together for quite some time they could figure something out. Your friend may not think straight at this time because he's confused and partly mad about the whole situation. Why not cool it down and give each other a little room to think and be themselves again. |
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| Author: | User_bmr [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 8:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Natural friend having problems with girlfriends family |
thanks. I normally think when these things occur stress screws it all but in this case i didnt knew the cause |
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| Author: | User13247 [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 10:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Natural friend having problems with girlfriends family |
The situation is unclear to me. Why would the girl be mad at him if she isn't cheating and the guy believes her? Your family means it's your responsibility. The girl should deal with the family herself and make sure they don't bother the guy. My personal opinion, however, is that it is very suspect that it's the girl's family that says she is cheating. A family usually protects each other and does not throw such accusations around lightly, you would think. |
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| Author: | User_bmr [ Mon Nov 26, 2012 5:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Natural friend having problems with girlfriends family |
lets say she is kind of adopted and the family does not have a good impression of her boyfriend. The issue is her getting mad at him for protecting her from the critiques her family does |
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