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Author:  Scarypm [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 12:02 pm ]
Post subject:  How to keep a girl loving you!
Basically my ex and I broke up, we were together for 1.5 years but lived in different cities but both have said that we think we belong together and think that eventually down the road we may me together.
Was a good break up and both want to be friends (she is my best friend and I hers)

Things were fine for me until 2 weeks ago (about 2 months after break up).I don't know why but I miss her loads now but was fine to start with. Ive been texting her being needy 'miss you' etc and started playing stupid facebook games which has really made her angry.

I just worried that she will eventually stop loving me and I dont want that

Thanks Guys
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 1:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to keep a girl loving you!
Quote:
Ive been texting her being needy 'miss you' etc and started playing stupid facebook games which has really made her angry.

I just worried that she will eventually stop loving me and I dont want that

Thanks Guys
STOP IT! Stop being NEEDY! Neediness is a desperate need for affection.To be needy is a guy who needs attention no matter what the cost. A person that doesn't have much confidence and will bug the living shit out of some poor girl just for a little attention. Needy is desperate, plain and simple!

Calling a girl again and again, leaving her messages that you miss her, sending flowers, telling her that they can’t sleep without seeing her. This is completely insane!

Showing neediness only makes women like you less. So if a girl starts losing interest in you, behaving needy is not the solution.

You broke up, she is your Ex girlfriend, not your current girlfriend! An ex is someone who was or used to be.

If you want to leave her with any respect for you at all, move forward with your life.
Author:  dark one [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 4:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to keep a girl loving you!
Here's the deal man.

If someone really wants to be with you they will make it work! they will do what it takes. You can't force someone to love you or force them to feel a certain way. Just do you...stop chasing after her and if she loves you she will make it work. Right now you are just pushing her away.

My advice is to move on and live you life, but you probably won't listen...most of the time you have to have your heart broken before you realize what i Just told you.
Author:  Scarypm [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to keep a girl loving you!
Quote:
Here's the deal man.

If someone really wants to be with you they will make it work! they will do what it takes. You can't force someone to love you or force them to feel a certain way. Just do you...stop chasing after her and if she loves you she will make it work. Right now you are just pushing her away.

My advice is to move on and live you life, but you probably won't listen...most of the time you have to have your heart broken before you realize what i Just told you.

No... thats good advice
I know she still loves me cause she told me a week ago and I don't want to be with her right now until I can move to London (I've always wanted to live there- nothing to do with her being there)

Thanks
Author:  smashthecrash [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to keep a girl loving you!
You can remain in contact, and be her friend without being needy. What they say "if it's meant to be, it will happen" is true. Bottom line: you can't force a woman to love you. Take the advice from others on this forum and save yourself the drama and stress of learning it the hard way.
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