PUA Forum :: I think I broke my gf. ;/

I don't understand how it'll be possible for you to start fresh when so much has happened already, without detaching for a while.

Also, if it was you who got jealous and started arguments (i.e., confusing the male and female polarities and exchanging roles), I don't think it was her who lost the power. It was you.

And therefore, it isn't her who needs to have a more powerful personality, instead it is you who needs to have his end of things fixed up. Make her more comfortable by being a better man to her. Treat her well, get her interest back into the relationship. This is more about you bringing things back to the equilibrium of mutual investment.

Author:	Fluffs [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 11:00 pm ]
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Long story short: She was an awesome girl when I met her. Later I started stupid arguments with her for I have no idea what reason myself. It kinda went back to normal but then I started getting jellous (fixed that issue no need to adress that) and got mad about that aswell, forced her to show everyone she's with me. Now everytime I text her she seems afraid of me and afraid to say anything. Even if I'm just joking she takes it all seriously. Last time I chatted her I had a ton of fun, but she kept acting away and a little irritated by what I was doing (I'm an annoyance sometimes, I don't know when). I feel like the whole relationship is like a job for her now. When she texts me at evenings to chat it's like she thinks she's ment to text me or I'll get mad. I really REALLY hate that feeling. I just want her to have a more powerful, stable personality, so she'd open up to me more. Sometimes when I chat her up she says a few things and waits till I ask about further details, though, it's obvious she could just tell me about them without me asking anything. NOTE: SEX isn't an issue here. I want her personality and happiness while she still understands she's mine and she has to make me love her.

Author:	maria_ [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 11:11 am ]
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Start all from the beginning with flirting.

Author:	vhou812 [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 10:47 pm ]
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Sounds like you've become a liability instead of an asset. I think Maria is right. You're going to have to be light, funny, smart, all the things you were at the beginning that attracted her to you in the first place.

Author:	Fluffs [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 11:17 am ]
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Thanks guys, I actually told her I wanted to start the relationship from the beginning again. Bonus to that I noticed I had lost my skills to create any feelings in other people (with all the inner game I've been doing.). So yeah, I'll probably work on my charms and everything else for some time, just need the motivation to, which I seem to get from winning or remembering my wins. The mindset of a winner will damn right help me here.

Author:	sleek89 [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 2:27 pm ]
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Yes best thing to do is start from the beginning - a clean slate Take pride in the fact that you acknowledged your jealousy issues and fixed them - many guys do not do this.

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Author:	Junglepimp [ Sun Nov 04, 2012 8:04 am ]
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I don't understand how it'll be possible for you to start fresh when so much has happened already, without detaching for a while. Also, if it was you who got jealous and started arguments (i.e., confusing the male and female polarities and exchanging roles), I don't think it was her who lost the power. It was you. And therefore, it isn't her who needs to have a more powerful personality, instead it is you who needs to have his end of things fixed up. Make her more comfortable by being a better man to her. Treat her well, get her interest back into the relationship. This is more about you bringing things back to the equilibrium of mutual investment.

Author:	Fluffs [ Sun Nov 04, 2012 10:00 am ]
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Quote: I don't understand how it'll be possible for you to start fresh when so much has happened already, without detaching for a while. Also, if it was you who got jealous and started arguments (i.e., confusing the male and female polarities and exchanging roles), I don't think it was her who lost the power. It was you. And therefore, it isn't her who needs to have a more powerful personality, instead it is you who needs to have his end of things fixed up. Make her more comfortable by being a better man to her. Treat her well, get her interest back into the relationship. This is more about you bringing things back to the equilibrium of mutual investment. I know it was me, but the way she started acting with me wasn't correct at all and I knew I had lost my place, my inner game glitches sometimes and it sucks ass. I did start fresh and I can detach while being in a relationship with her, just making no clear moves and being a light version of who I should be. Things will surely go better from now on, really Thanks for the replies guys, you helped me lots.

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