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Author:  whitebird [ Wed Oct 31, 2012 8:21 pm ]
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I am now in Budapest and here I could raise my skills some levels.
Now I have something with some girl, but I have more to go to.
I wonder how you could maintain a kind of healthy relationship if you wan to have more relations at the same time?
Just be honest? Hide? Try to keep them 'seperate'? Choose?

And what about Facebook? I mean they can see that I add girls all the time ...

Thanks a lot!
Author:  sleek89 [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 1:01 am ]
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How long are you there for?

do you mean be in a relationship with one girl, and still chat up, flirt, game other girls? or just bang as many girls as you want while you're there?

I always make sure I have a few other girls as potential options if anything goes wrong. But when I'm in a relationship I tend to let the girls talk to me first on facebook, text etc. I don't really go out my way to game another girl.

if you want to bang as many girls as possible, then it isn't really any of the other girl's business what you do. just remember this: don't be silly, wrap you're willy!
Author:  whitebird [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 10:29 am ]
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I don't know how long I'll be here. I just know it's waaaaaaaaaaay easier to pickup girls here than in f*cking Belgium.

The thing is that I can't have good sex if there's no real connection/intimacy with a girl. I like to have a kind if relationship, I mean at least more then sex: good talking, fun, do some trips, etc. I guess if I 'cheat' on them it is not possible. But I also like to have other girls, in the same way ...
I don't know if there's a solution. I don't think a girl will accept that I have different girlfriends :?
And I can understand ...
Desires,desires ... aah.
Author:  maria_ [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 11:09 am ]
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That's rubbish.

First of all if you are in an exclusive relationship you are in an exclusive relationship. Cheating is not acceptable. And for a pick up artist is even more not acceptable. It is very Beta not to say even lower than that.

If at this place you can pick up easier then go for the one night stands. You will fulfill your needs for emotional connection back to Belgium.

Having multiple relationships although it sounds like a great idea and can be a fantasy of many, in reality it fails: You have no time to satisfy any of them and you are never happy with any of them. There is always something missing. Even if you do it for a short time, it is energy and time consuming.
Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 2:08 pm ]
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Having multiple relationships although it sounds like a great idea and can be a fantasy of many, in reality it fails: You have no time to satisfy any of them and you are never happy with any of them. There is always something missing. Even if you do it for a short time, it is energy and time consuming.
I take issue with this. First, having multiple relationships is a great way to get better at dealing with women. It ingrains abundance mentality and it's great for building up a guy's confidence. It also teaches guys how to spot and handle betaization attempts, shit tests, and drama. Second, I'm extremely happy having multiple relationships.. happier than I ever was in a monogamous relationship. I've been in a fantastic OLTR for over two years now. I consider that a success.

I guess my point is that I don't find this to be very good advice. Just because MLTR's aren't for you doesn't mean they aren't for everyone. Furthermore, valuable skills can be gained from maintaining MLTR's for at least some short period of time. I firmly believe it is a great stepping stone to mastering relationship game. If you can handle dating multiple women, then dealing with just one becomes so much easier.

@ Whitebird - Don't promise to be exclusive with girls and you wont be cheating on them. Personally, I DO tell girls that I'm dating other women once we're in a relationship (i.e. after we've slept together.. usually immediately afterwards). However, most guys just don't bring it up or talk about it, they just never promise NOT to sleep with other girls. The key is to never give in when she tries to make the relationship exclusive. Oh, and act like your actions are perfectly normal (they are! and it's important that your personality is congruent with your actions).

Follow Tubarao's basic relationship rules: http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php? ... -Rules-3-0

-Wolf
Author:  whitebird [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 4:04 pm ]
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thanks. I'll just have to experiment a bit I guess 8)
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