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Author:  Shadowboxer [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 3:40 am ]
Post subject:  Want to be with this girl, but she wants to get back to ex
This girl is cute, but she dumped her cheating ex and she misses him so she's been crying all day, which is ironic. It's probably normal for a girl to be like that. Either that or her self-esteem is pretty low.

Now I'm pretty sure she likes me, but she's never seen me in person (she's seen my pics though) so I tried to set up simple dates, like getting something to eat but she always understandably brings me an excuse.

At first, I was a jerk. I really didn't give a fuck about her problems. Or any other person's problems for that matter. Then, I tried to be the understanding guy, trying to make her feel better and stuff like:

"You're a tough girl. You'll make it."

and she hasn't shown any negative responses but I feel like I'm going nowhere with this girl.

I think I'm gonna move on. I don't wanna get sucked into this.

Also I'm gonna try and sarge other girls outside of school (she's not in my school) cause trying to do that in school is a mess...
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 4:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Want to be with this girl, but she wants to get back to ex
You're smart to cut your losses. At least you know that. Girls like this are nice for a bang or two, but if you're looking for something more long-term than that, it's not gonna happen.
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Then, I tried to be the understanding guy, trying to make her feel better and stuff like:

"You're a tough girl. You'll make it."
All the reassuring stuff you fed her makes you cringe now, huh?
Author:  Rough Operator [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 8:30 pm ]
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You'll be a rebound and she'll fuck you over if you become emotionally invested. That's really not a fun situation in my experience.
Author:  Shadowboxer [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 9:14 pm ]
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Yeah I know what you mean Operator. Shit like this has happened before so I won't let it happen again.

Being nice sucks balls.
Author:  sleek89 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 4:12 pm ]
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Don't let her use you for rebound purposes, You are worth more than that.
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