GF of 10 months.

She Works 3 jobs, I see her anywhere from 1-3 times a week. Usually twice.

Whenever we had seen each other we almost always have sex and it is almost always hot and she cums huge.

However last time we had sex (two Sundays ago) it was a quick wham bam kind of thing because she had already made plans to see her girlfriend for brunch at 930AM. We had sex around 9am, but it was rushed, and she was making it seem like an inconvenience for her which I didn't really care for and it showed. I came but she did not. Normally I would have gone down on her, done more foreplay but it was first thing in the morning and neither of us had showered.

I had mentioned the night before that I was going over to a buddy's house that Sunday morning to watch football but didn't say what time exactly. She got up early at 8 to watch tv whereas I wanted to sleep in a bit. Which I did. During this time is when she made the plans to meet her friend for brunch at 930.

Anyway the last time I saw her was a week ago. She denied sex on that day saying her Aunt was in town (period) which I'm iffy on. Even if she was, that has rarely stopped us in the past.

I didn't make a big thing of it but the next day asked her via text if the only reason for no sex was due to her period and she said yes and asked why.

I told her that lately it didn't seem like she was into it and that also she never sends flirty/playful/dirty texts anymore, which she used to do all the time.

She replied by saying that I've been putting too much emphasis on sex lately and that the last time we did it that I made her feel like she owed it to me. I replied that was not the case, she did not owe me, but I was not happy with the fact that she was making it very rushed to where there was not even making out really.

Any time I've brought up anything remotely sexual over the past couple weeks, she hasn't responded to it. It's like something has changed.

This can't be a good sign.

Any thoughts?

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Thanks guys.

Do you go out and have fun with her? do you make her laugh? i think you might have made her feel cheap by doing what you did.... theres alot more then just sex... its important... but theres more to it bro... do something sweet for her... make her feel loved and appreciated.. i know its easy to get caught up in that alpha male shit but they need the tenderness balanced with the alpha part when we're talkin about long term relationships.

Also talk to her and get it out of her whats wrong.... communication is very important..... and dont forget to do things that DHV... dont get lazy in the relationship.

Good luck

everyone has a vulnerability, even alphas. that attracts women because that vulnerability is a woman's way of connecting with you emotionally. Constantly trying to alpha your chick is kind of a turnoff because then you start to come off as an asshole. but damn dude your girl works hard..3 jobs? what a fucking trooper. Honestly, do something nice for her and show your appreciation for how hard she works. Women are people too.