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| Author: | Cheyenne [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 6:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | In a relationship, what now? |
Right so I am not sure how much rapport I've built with this chick or how much she needed a boyfriend but there I am. Right now I want to make sure that she will get crazy of me, she'll chase me all the fucking day, because she's pretty and I want to see her wanting me more. So basically what are some basic advices of keeping a relationship alive? All up to sex, obviously. |
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| Author: | familien01 [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 11:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Relationships |
Be responsible and caring to your girlfriend. Sex is not the solution. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Sep 05, 2012 12:57 pm ] |
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Continually demonstrate higher value. Keep working out (or start if you don't workout already). Iron your clothes. Make her jump through hopes. Make yourself unavailable. But at the same time, treat her well and make her feel special. Open the car door for her. Be spontaneous. Sex is pretty much at the bottom of the list, imo. |
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| Author: | Cheyenne [ Wed Sep 05, 2012 7:52 pm ] |
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Could you translate to me what's high value? I mean, in standard terms, with nice explanation, and few examples of how to do that. |
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| Author: | TheSeagull [ Wed Sep 05, 2012 7:56 pm ] |
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do not underestimate good sex. yes, it's not everything. if you are a shitty BF in any other department, good sex will only get you so far - I suspect the other extreme (be a good BF and give shitty sex) would work for slightly longer.. the golden combination is: be a good boyfriend AND fuck her good 
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| Author: | wplusm [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 12:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | In a relationship, what now? |
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| Author: | Reality Show [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 10:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Ramblings |
Bring her into situations where you can show off that you are the boss. The leader has higher value than the follower. |
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| Author: | Paul_T [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 2:37 pm ] |
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Right now I want to make sure that she will get crazy of me, she'll chase me all the fucking day, because she's pretty and I want to see her wanting me more.
I want to slap you. This is like the most insecure and needy thing I've ever read, with an undertone of misogynism and a disrespect for her and her feelings. Cut that shit out. I've written this on my blog - http://howtogetagirl.biz/mini-post-chec ... ationship/ But have copyed and pasted it here too. Micro-post : being a Man in a relationship - Keep working on yourself until you are the perfect guy on paper. Have a good job, nice place, etc. You want her to think "my boyfriend is awesome". Great fashion, be well kept. Keep working on your confidence, status, social skills. - Compliment her when she needs it. Be nice. - Equally, don't be a pussy. Still tease, poke fun, and be unpredictable. - Be busy in your life. Have hobbies, have friends, do things. Some of these fun things, bring her into - i.e. do fun stuff with her. Some of these fun things, don't bring her into. All relationships need some space. Basically don't need her around to have a good time. You should be the source of the fun, don't expect it from her. In some ways this is part of the first bullet point. - Have great sex. Have great sex in random places. Learn to be the best in bed she will ever experience. Do every position in the karma sutra. Be a sexy guy. Start texting her what you're going to do to her when she's still at work. Then when she gets home, actually do that to her. - Have a mission, a purpose. Be going somewhere in your life and career. Be driven. - Connect with her deeply. Don't be weak, but do talk about your feelings. - Meet her parents/family and make a good fucking impression. - Be with her because you want to be with her, not because you need anything from her. - In her mind, let her think that if she broke up with you, then you could get another girlfriend. This is done mainly with all the above, don't try to drop a load of hints about other girls strategically. - Be responsible. Generally. Let her see you looking out for your friends, family, etc. If something goes wrong, fix it. This means everything from helping diffuse a fight down the pub, to buying a DIY book and fixing her leaky tap. - Respect her. Do not put her down. - Have strong boundaries. If she oversteps the line, tell her straight. Don't move on your deal breakers. Just because you're in a relationship, does not mean you can be a little bitch - she'll loose attraction and leave your ass. - Special situation: If she is flirting with another guy. This does happen. The first time, take her aside the next day and calmy let her know it was out of line. If you've done it right, it'll never happen again unless she's pissed at you. If she does do it again, tell her it's out of line in front of all her friends and the guy she's flirting with. If she does it a third time, dump her. She doesn't respect you. (I bet everyone has heard that old advice of doing the same as she is doing to you by finding some girls and flirting with them (i.e. the fight fire with fire approach). I'd love to know where this advice came from, because it's the worst advice I've had the misfortune to try out. It doesn't work in a relationship at all - it just leads to fights and her getting emotional. And it gives her ammunition to fire at you. Let me save you the huge arguments and say just don't try it. |
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| Author: | SimplyNotAwesome [ Sun Sep 16, 2012 1:25 pm ] |
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Paul_T has it right. Wanting a girlfriend who lives for you and chases or ass sounds needy and insecure as fuck. True chase happens once there are strong emotions. If you do not invest in your emotions this will not happen. Once you both invest in your emotions there will be chase from both of you. |
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| Author: | meggisonj [ Thu Sep 20, 2012 7:21 pm ] |
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Read this.. http://www.5lovelanguages.com/ Go to Barnes and Noble, read a little and get ideas... Good sex is good and powerful, but mixed with this you will make her feel you are connected in ways no one ever connected with her. You will never be wrong. With this, it's the thought that counts as long as it follows with the same language. Find out what she likes, do it often. It's super simple. There are only 5... it's not like a maze and a question of where to go at the intersection. I had a fling with someone and she was so pleased when I made an attempt to find out what her love language was. She was fed up with the other girl/woman because there wasn't a thought to find out what she (the one I had the fling with) liked. Side note.. bisexual women are fun and open minded. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Sep 20, 2012 7:58 pm ] |
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As far as the sex goes, I'd say hold back a little at first. Like don't go down on her until later in the relationship. Then once the initial "honeymoon period" is over, you can bump up the sexual stuff a notch and take it to the next level, making it exciting and fun again, and better. Aside from that, be spontaneous. Failing to be that way is what doomed all of my longterm relationships. Call her up and tell her you are picking her up and going somewhere that you can't tell her yet because it's a surprise. Fly her to Vegas. Drive to some far off place. If you sit around with her and talk to her about where you would like to go, that ruins it. Just decide on your own and then bring her with you. She'll love that you are taking control and wisking her off her feet. |
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