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Author:  Vibe23 [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 8:42 am ]
Post subject:  When did you officially become bf/gf, and after how long?
Thanks to the difference between my old AFC self and my newer less AFC self, I have met an awesome girl and we have a lot of fun whenever we are together.

Its been three weeks, and we stay at each others places every couple of days. She has said she wants to be exclusive and I agree, how does a PUA go about this? A simple conversation or something more romantic?

Also out of interest if you want to include from your own PUA experiences, how long it took before you officially became bf/gf I would be interested. Cheers!
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 9:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When did you officially become bf/gf, and after how long?
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She has said she wants to be exclusive and I agree
ok

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how does a PUA go about this?
wait what? she asked you out and you donno what to do to make her your gf?
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She has said she wants to be exclusive and I agree
this ^ is how you do it, and how long?, there is no offical timeline that all girls follow, have sex with her, hang out with her, rinse and repeat, eventually she will ask you out or stop hanging out with you, that's about it, and while you're single you can see other girls cause you aren't obligated to be monogomous, neither is she
Author:  Vibe23 [ Mon Sep 03, 2012 9:40 am ]
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Thanks for the reply Pumpington, I find this interesting as yesterday she says she isnt sure what to refer to me as amongst her friends, hinting that she wants to be in a relationship.

I am guessing most relationships get to the point, where you are happy enough with one person that you dont want anyone else.

I am sure once I tell her, she will want to put it on her Facebook. I don't really have a problem with this sort of process but I just wanted to get some feedback on other peoples experiences, if this always happens the same way?
Author:  Risen [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 1:43 pm ]
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Hey Vibe,

I feel like it's tough to put a timetable on things. The only thing you can be certain of is when you two reach a point where you're like "Hey, we really like each other and don't want to date other people, let's be exclusive." Some people are good at talking about it and some aren't. It can be an awkward conversation to bring up, but it sounds like you two are on the same page so you're good.

To your question, there's nothing "PUA" you should be doing. You have already gotten to the point where she wants to be exclusive with you so congrats!! The important thing I've learned in my years is not to overthink things too much. It should be a simple conversation just to make sure you both understand where you both stand. Communication is everything. Don't worry about it and just be who you are.

-Risen
Author:  Vibe23 [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 1:54 pm ]
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Thanks Risen, best reply I could have received!

By way of an update we ended up having the conversation after we were joking about boyfriend/girlfriend privileges. As we were both pretty much on the same page it went really smoothly and now everything is nice and clear.

Anyone reading this in the same position, I recommend taking Risens advice!
Author:  dark one [ Wed Sep 05, 2012 3:01 am ]
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about a month and a half but I dragged my feet...we were "exclusive" after a couple weeks, meaning we agreed to not date other people but I didn't ask her to be my gf until about 5 or 5 weeks in.

It actually happend because at the club I introduced her as my "friend" lol she got really upset! so I made her my gf and put a label on it.
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