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Author:  Ckiller171 [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Building dependency

Hey guys I've been dating my girl for about 7 months now and things have gone pretty smoothly. Until today she as randomly started hanging out with friends more, and going out clubbing more (which she said she didn't care much for). I know she misses her friends and she's going through an emotional time in her life. But I want to build back up some dependency that I used to have a lot of since I want her to stick around with me.
Also I'm fairly certain she's been honest and loyal to our relationship but her sudden change of attitude and behavior makes me want to try to make her rely on me more and be there for her when she needs it. To be plain honest I feel like I've been replaced in a few aspects of her life with her friends. Should I be worried? And how can I make her at least depend on me for some things?[/quote]

Author:  PUAzilla [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 10:00 pm ]
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Go out just as much yourself, I'm sure she'll start feeling the same was as you are.

Author:  PUA Kenny [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 10:39 pm ]
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Totally agree with PUAZilla.

You basically want her to be chasing after you again.

You have to start becoming more aloof and independent.

Author:  Keep_Living [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 3:59 pm ]
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Take time for yourself. Maintain your hobbies, interest, friends. She will chase you if she feels that she never completely has you. When your out with her flirt mildly with another girl to show her that your game is good and other girls will fill her shoes if she doesnt want to be in your life. Remember your the shit and if she doesnt see it thats her problem!

Author:  Ckiller171 [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 6:48 pm ]
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Haha, all answers basically in the same realm. Thanks guys, I'll give you some follow-up in a few weeks :)

Author:  PUAzilla [ Sun Sep 02, 2012 7:57 pm ]
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Please do man.

I used to struggle with this, but when you get a better balance in the relationship it feels amazing.

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