PUA Forum
https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/

Got a date with my ex... But did she friendzone me?
https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=128&t=143021		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 12:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Got a date with my ex... But did she friendzone me?
So we broke up because she saw me more as a brother and we didn't do enough fun stuff and she thought i only wanted her for the sex etc.

Now we're going to the movies tonight and i really want her back as my GF, however she said the following line

"as friends"

So we are going to the movies "as friends", is this a shit test or did she friendzone me and is there no way back? :lol:

I noticed she might have doubts about us breaking up she said how she missed the old times and when we had fun and stuff like that.

Anyway, anyone has some good tips for me on how to make this a fun evening for us both and win her back over?

Thanks!
Author:  Furiox [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 12:51 pm ]
Post subject: 
Do not bring up any relationship stuff and just treat her like a friend.

Be funny and your best self, this will let her think about how much fun she had with you. Act like you moved on as well, that you got your stuff together and that the break-up did not really affected you that much.

If you do this right attraction will grow again and ball with be in your corner.

You need to spark some emotions again so don't listen to what she says about "as friends".. cause emotions out-rule those words anytime.

Good luck bro and keep us posted how things went.
Author:  Thedutchone [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 12:55 pm ]
Post subject: 
Wouldn't got that road with that girl.
Did your relationship really got boring or is it her version?
If you admit it did there is a chance you can develop and get it back on rails.
However if she just misses the attention don't get cought up by it and ignore that girl.
Author:  dark one [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 12:57 pm ]
Post subject: 
Yes it is a shit test and you might have already failed. If you like her and she said "as friends" why did you not speak your mind and stand up for you self? by saying something like "Listen we both know that is not possible, ex's don't just hang out as friends so no I don't think this is a good idea, have a nice life".

You will end up getting hurt in the end, don't let her use you as an emotional tampon! Make it clear what you want, don't get overly emotional, and if she see's you as just friends then tell her "have a nice life"...ex's can't be just friends clearly, you still have feelings and she might as well except hers will faid fast as soon as she finds our your not going anywhere and she can walk all over you.

You know who you should be going to the movies with? other women, and when your ex gf realizes "I miss him" she can call you and set up a date, and when I say date I don't mean as friends.

p.s a movie is a terrible date idea! you spend two hours not talking...never understood the "movie date", you can watch movies with your grandma, go do something fun next time!
Author:  dark one [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 1:07 pm ]
Post subject: 
Here is how to save your self in this situation, call her up, tell her the movies are boring and you are going to surprise her and take her on another date, tell her what to wear and what time you will pick her up, also inform her that your not hanging out as friends but that its a date.

If she says "No we are just friends" tell her "that's to bad because we could have had a lot of fun! any way I don't think we can be just friends and I think you know that, so I am going to make other plans for that night, and I wish you all the best" end the convo!

Be the alpha male! you know what you want so take it and if she does not give you what you want then go find a women who will. Then set up another date for that night so you are not sitting around crying about her, when she calls back tell her you already have plans with someone eles.

The bottom line is that her interest level at this point is very low! so why waste your time on her? the more attention you pay her the less she will respect you because she is using you....if she comes around down the road (which she probably will) then go on a date and this time be a man instead of doing what ever she tells you! until then live your life and live it well!
Author:  P1nkstar [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 1:18 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Here is how to save your self in this situation, call her up, tell her the movies are boring and you are going to surprise her and take her on another date, tell her what to wear and what time you will pick her up, also inform her that your not hanging out as friends but that its a date.

If she says "No we are just friends" tell her "that's to bad because we could have had a lot of fun! any way I don't think we can be just friends and I think you know that, so I am going to make other plans for that night, and I wish you all the best" end the convo!

Be the alpha male! you know what you want so take it and if she does not give you what you want then go find a women who will. Then set up another date for that night so you are not sitting around crying about her, when she calls back tell her you already have plans with someone eles.

The bottom line is that her interest level at this point is very low! so why waste your time on her? the more attention you pay her the less she will respect you because she is using you....if she comes around down the road (which she probably will) then go on a date and this time be a man instead of doing what ever she tells you! until then live your life and live it well!
quoted for truth
Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 2:00 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Here is how to save your self in this situation, call her up, tell her the movies are boring and you are going to surprise her and take her on another date, tell her what to wear and what time you will pick her up, also inform her that your not hanging out as friends but that its a date.

If she says "No we are just friends" tell her "that's to bad because we could have had a lot of fun! any way I don't think we can be just friends and I think you know that, so I am going to make other plans for that night, and I wish you all the best" end the convo!

Be the alpha male! you know what you want so take it and if she does not give you what you want then go find a women who will. Then set up another date for that night so you are not sitting around crying about her, when she calls back tell her you already have plans with someone eles.

The bottom line is that her interest level at this point is very low! so why waste your time on her? the more attention you pay her the less she will respect you because she is using you....if she comes around down the road (which she probably will) then go on a date and this time be a man instead of doing what ever she tells you! until then live your life and live it well!
Wow that's real good! Unfortunately i already bought tickets for the movies, i was looking just now at a bowling centrum to go bowling but its closed today..

So i guess we will go to the movies anyway, the thing is i think she knows its a date but she said the "just friends" part to test me cause she maybe still thinks im only doing it for the sex?

Anyway, i have to pick her up in 1.30 hours, wish me luck.. and thanks for the help!
Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 2:24 pm ]
Post subject: 
Ok i thought fuck it movies are indeed boring and i called a bowling centrum a little farther away and made plans to go bowling! The movie tickets are already paid but whatever

She's not available right now but ill call her in an hour and tell her the change of plans!
Author:  96Firebird [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 2:31 pm ]
Post subject: 
Odd, I don't usually purchase my "friend's" movie tickets...
Author:  Furiox [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 2:58 pm ]
Post subject: 
This may sound harsh but its meant for your own good.

You probably convinced her to go on a date with you and because your such a nice guy you paid for everything. What did she do to deserve this? She broke-up with you because she saw you more as a brother, she should be crying at home while you are having fun with new potential girlfriends.

Instead, your paying for her and trying to win her back but this is exactly how you will never win her back! Proven a million times over and over. Not having you pay attention to her makes her miss you and chances are much higher to get her back.

What i see is a weak and insecure guy who thinks there isn't any other girl out there who want him so he keeps investing in the ex cause its easy! Work on your inner game and get more confidence so you can drop this girl like a brick and not feel like shit about it because you can text 3 other better looking girls then her to chill with.

Have fun on bowling though but for gods sake make sure she at least pays 50% of the "date". If she wants to be friends she better pays for her own shit.
    Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:00 pm ]
    Post subject: 
    Guys relax, i reserved the tickets and she was going to pay her own ticket, but now that i canceled that and made bowling reservations i can't expect her to pay for a movie ticket where we're not even going,

    She will still be paying 50% of our bowling date, but not going to the movies was my decision so i will have to pay for that
    Author:  5stars [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 4:27 pm ]
    Post subject: 
    I never heard from ex gfs that they would wanted to be "friends with me", I only heard they still love me and they want to see me, but I'm a womanizer so after I'm finished with 1 girl, I go to another 1 :D

    Looks like you still haven't learned anything from PUA material, if you think she will fall in love with you cuz you will take her to movies, bowling? You are totaly wrong dude.
    Girls go to movies, bowling, ice-skating, and all of this with family, friends, boyfriends...
    Author:  JonnyDeep [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 9:00 pm ]
    Post subject: 
    Dude...














    DA FUQ?!?!
    I WILL SLAP YOU WITH MY PENIS IF U EVER TEXT OR SPEAK TO HER AGAIN U GOT THAT

    FUCK HER!
    GO fuck other girls!
    Go work!
    Go to parties!
    Go out!
    Flirst
    Have fun

    If she call u don't be a kid answer her and talk for 5-10 minutes than just say u need to go for etc etc etc

    Never talk for more than 10 minutes!
    You are giving her an ear,shoulder and u listen to shit mostly that says how well is she with that!

    FUCK HER IN THE BUTCOCKS!
    Author:  mmresd [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 11:57 pm ]
    Post subject:  Re: Got a date with my ex... But did she friendzone me?
    Quote:
    So we broke up because she saw me more as a brother and we didn't do enough fun stuff and she thought i only wanted her for the sex etc.

    Now we're going to the movies tonight and i really want her back as my GF, however she said the following line

    "as friends"

    So we are going to the movies "as friends", is this a shit test or did she friendzone me and is there no way back? :lol:

    I noticed she might have doubts about us breaking up she said how she missed the old times and when we had fun and stuff like that.

    Anyway, anyone has some good tips for me on how to make this a fun evening for us both and win her back over?

    Thanks!
    She will continue to use you as long as you let her. You need to go no contact, and that will increase the chances of her coming back. She has broken up with you, let her feel the consequences of her decision. Treat this for what it is (which is a break up) and start moving on, see other people, if she comes back great, if not you have a headstart in moving on. Don't let her keep you in the backburner while she finds her next toy, especially because YOU are the one that will come out hurting from this one-itis case that you are having.
    Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
    Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
    http://www.phpbb.com/