I believe I finally have some expertise on a subject.
Use your common sense, did you have a clue how to touch a girl's vagina the first few times? It should be a very fun experience for her to learn how to pleasure a man. You shouldn't put her under pressure with negative feedback, rather use positive feedback.
You can say "ouch that hurts", but don't say "you're bad in bed", "it's doing nothing for me". Immediately tell her when she's got the right stroke: "wow, that feels great", etc. - that part is self explicable.
I remember the first time my girlfriend gave a handjob. I whispered encouraging things in her ear. She couldn't really let me come, but that was OK. After ten minutes or so I said: shall I finish it? The second time or the third time, I don't remember, she was able to let me come all by herself.
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I go down on her and she loves it but when i ask give me a blowjob she says another time... selfish bitch much?
I suspect wrong way of giving feedback. She should be thrilled with her ability to pleasure you with her mouth. There's a myriad of other things that could cause this to happen.In all cases, don't call her a selfish bitch.
I personally never really ask for blowjobs, but that's a whole thing altogether. When she's really turned on she will do anything to please you, and you just put your penis in her mouth - see how that works.
My girlfriend's first blowjob (and mine) I initiated with (while she was stroking) "give it a kiss baby".
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Also i never tried to take her virginity yet cause i want it to be beautiful for her, need to wait till my parents go on vacation or something so i got the house to myself, so right now were really stuck to just foreplay.
I remember three weeks or so me and my girlfriend had to wait for our first time, because we had to wait for birth control to take effect. (she had to start this pill at the start of her cycle). We had decided we wanted to have sex, but couldn't yet. That is when I got good at cunnilingus/fingering her. (and she got pretty good at oral sex as well 
)Bottom line: approach everything with positive feedback and have a laugh about her and your own mistakes, have a light attitude. It's about the most fun thing you can do, you know.
but ill see how it goes. There girls out there who had little to no pain losing their virginity so hopefully this one is no exception.