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| Author: | xcalibar [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 1:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New girlfriend... unsure past |
Hi, So I recently met a new girl, who we got close fast with and is now my GF. We had been seeing for 2 weeks, and slept at my house 13 days of those 2 weeks. So basically she is always with me. However recently her past came known to me, she was with her last bf, who she was on and off with since when she was 14. One day apparently she just decided to end their relationship. Her version is a little more intricate as to why. And she broke up around 5 weeks ago now. She has NO feeling for him, I could tell if she did, which is quite shocking. she is 19 now, my fear is that this girls suddenly turns around and decides to walk out as she clearly did to the other guy. She says things like " Are you trying to make me fall in love with you" and why I asked what she means she says " because you are simply too perfect". She says shes never been happier and I spoil her too much. I really don't spoil her, she seems to over appreciate everything. And everybody seemingly loves this girl. Her sex drive is trough the roof and she has the most amazing body Ive seen on a girl recently. Now back to my question, if shes so seeming happy, and I am so different to the guys she had before. Is it just a matter of keeping the interest up and things iwll be Oki. Or should I be weary. My knee jerk reaction is, every relationship is different she probably came to a sickening point that the guy just didn't intercept. |
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| Author: | P1nkstar [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 1:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New girlfriend... unsure past |
Quote: Hi,
History is history, enjoy the now.So I recently met a new girl, who we got close fast with and is now my GF. We had been seeing for 2 weeks, and slept at my house 13 days of those 2 weeks. So basically she is always with me. However recently her past came known to me, she was with her last bf, who she was on and off with since when she was 14. One day apparently she just decided to end their relationship. Her version is a little more intricate as to why. And she broke up around 5 weeks ago now. She has NO feeling for him, I could tell if she did, which is quite shocking. she is 19 now, my fear is that this girls suddenly turns around and decides to walk out as she clearly did to the other guy. She says things like " Are you trying to make me fall in love with you" and why I asked what she means she says " because you are simply too perfect". She says shes never been happier and I spoil her too much. I really don't spoil her, she seems to over appreciate everything. And everybody seemingly loves this girl. Her sex drive is trough the roof and she has the most amazing body Ive seen on a girl recently. Now back to my question, if shes so seeming happy, and I am so different to the guys she had before. Is it just a matter of keeping the interest up and things iwll be Oki. Or should I be weary. My knee jerk reaction is, every relationship is different she probably came to a sickening point that the guy just didn't intercept. You cannot know what happened between them, from ur 14 till ur 19 is a long time, and a big period, you're not really mature. She lasted 5 yrs with him, so i shouldn't be worrying about that too much. Enjoy the time you have now |
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| Author: | PUAzilla [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 1:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New girlfriend... unsure past |
Quote: Is it just a matter of keeping the interest up and things iwll be Oki.
I think this is exactly what is is. You just need to carry on being this 'perfect' boyfriend and you'll be fine.Just remember things like, don't see her too much, don't text her too much, make sure she chases you, keep the attraction level high. There's tonnes of tips for keeping relationships good have a search around. Good luck man. |
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