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| Author: | Johndigwood120 [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 5:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | GF breaks up with me.. Shit test? |
Short story: Basically she disrespected me and i called her out on it and she got all emotional/mad about it and i said that i wanted some time to think about it (freeze out). Then she said ''I really dont want to deal with this crap so have a nice life goodbye'' So she broke up with me.. Now im wondering what my next action is here? Long Story: less important part: So this friday i asked her if she would hang out at my place, she said no im tired blabla and i was annoyed at it (had a bad day) so i said something like ''ok fine'' and she took this in a bad way and after that she was annoyed by it and you could notice it in her text The next day i went to a big festival and she was going out that night, i told her i would join her and meet her, she said ''ok'' while normally she would say ''omg so fun yeyae'' blabla. So i asked straight up ''Why are you behaving like this?'' And she made up some bullshit about how she was in a hurry and didnt have time to text So i figured it would be better to just talk to her in person about it for a short time and have it fixed (boy was i wrong) So i told her to meet me somewhere in the city and after waiting for 20 minutes she showed up and i asked her to talk for 5 min and we did I basically asked what's wrong and she said that nothing's wrong with her but that i'm doing weird because i said ''ok fine'' the other day. Then i said ''This makes no sense if this is the way its going to go always then i dont want this anymore'' and she said ''ok fine then you dont want it'' and she got emotional mad and stuff so i figured it was useless to talk to here like this and we still went out with friends and had a shit time on our way back we were kind of talking alone while walking home and we made up and talked it out and everything was fine here more important part Then the next day i woke up and realised something, i asked her to meet me at club YYY because my mobile battery was empty and i couldn't talk to her otherwise, so she said she ok ill meet u there so i went there and waited for 30 minutes and they finally showed up. Then on the way back she told me she was in club XXX before that but said it was boring and then came to the club i was waiting for. So i thought to myself ''so if it wasn't boring then she would have stayed here and let me wait outside for nothing'' and this felt as if she disrespected my by letting me wait for so long, so i called her out on that and she want emotional mad about it so i said i wanted to time to think (freeze out) Then she said ''I really dont want to deal with this crap so have a nice life goodbye'' So she broke up with me.. Now im wondering what my next action is here? |
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| Author: | gtdave [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 5:41 pm ] |
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It might be a shit test and it might be the final goodbye either way I wouldn't contact her until she tries to contact you! Letting you wait was a bit shitty but in all honesty you should of let that slide or at least see why she was late. Sure she could of found it boring but her friends might not of thought that! She's hardly going to ditch her mates and come running! |
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| Author: | 870 [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 6:10 pm ] |
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A shit test is a statement or question put forward by a girl who's unsure whether you actually are the person you seem to be. It's basically girl code for, "I'm really attracted to you but I want to make sure you're for real before I waste too much time on you." Now, can you reasonably imagine any girl you've been in a relationship with for any length of time saying those words? Of course not. When you get into long-term exclusivity with a person, you need to leave a lot of that PUA crap at the door and focus on being real. It sounds to me like your personality does not mesh well with this girl's and, to be honest, you're both too emotionally touchy to deal with each other. But whether I'm right or wrong about that, I am 100% positive that this wasn't a test. Your boy, 870 |
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| Author: | Johndigwood120 [ Sun Jul 01, 2012 6:27 pm ] |
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Quote: A shit test is a statement or question put forward by a girl who's unsure whether you actually are the person you seem to be. It's basically girl code for, "I'm really attracted to you but I want to make sure you're for real before I waste too much time on you." Now, can you reasonably imagine any girl you've been in a relationship with for any length of time saying those words? Of course not.
Hmm okay well thanks for clearing that up!When you get into long-term exclusivity with a person, you need to leave a lot of that PUA crap at the door and focus on being real. It sounds to me like your personality does not mesh well with this girl's and, to be honest, you're both too emotionally touchy to deal with each other. But whether I'm right or wrong about that, I am 100% positive that this wasn't a test. Your boy, 870 But any advice on what my next action would be here? |
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| Author: | izumi [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 12:03 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: A shit test is a statement or question put forward by a girl who's unsure whether you actually are the person you seem to be. It's basically girl code for, "I'm really attracted to you but I want to make sure you're for real before I waste too much time on you." Now, can you reasonably imagine any girl you've been in a relationship with for any length of time saying those words? Of course not.
Hmm okay well thanks for clearing that up!When you get into long-term exclusivity with a person, you need to leave a lot of that PUA crap at the door and focus on being real. It sounds to me like your personality does not mesh well with this girl's and, to be honest, you're both too emotionally touchy to deal with each other. But whether I'm right or wrong about that, I am 100% positive that this wasn't a test. Your boy, 870 But any advice on what my next action would be here? Nothing. |
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| Author: | On A Rampage [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 8:19 am ] |
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This is NOT a shit test. This is her wanting ATTENTION. She wants you to come crawling back. You can do this, or you can freeze her out. Either way you've still got her in the bag. Don't worry. |
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| Author: | Johndigwood120 [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 11:43 am ] |
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Quote: This is NOT a shit test. This is her wanting ATTENTION. She wants you to come crawling back. You can do this, or you can freeze her out. Either way you've still got her in the bag. Don't worry.
Hmm interesting, but if i keep freezing her out should i wait for her to contact me first or should i contact her after a couple days? I'm at the point of where i did some thinking and now understand the situation completely and her and i were both at fault and i want to make her clear of this, then the only thing i'll call her out on is that she said ''have a nice life goodbye'' after such a stupid argument like it means nothing or something. Not sure tho |
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| Author: | 870 [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 9:35 pm ] |
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Quote: Do not blame, call out, alpha male, superman, or water sprinkle any hoes. And what will be, will be.
This is probably the best quote in the history of PUAF.Your boy, 870 |
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