PUA Forum :: dumped coz i looked at her ????

I can see you are struggling to hold things together. I want to inform you that there is help out there. I have been through similar situations with my current girlfriend to the point where I thought there was no way around the problems we had. I was at the maximum level of desperation to save my relationship. I learned a lot through surfing on the web about the conflicts that my girlfriend and I were facing. One example would be wrongfully dealing with constantly fighting situations about pointless things. I also learned important information such as:

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- What it takes to know that both you and your partner are putting in 100% effort into a successful relationship

In reality, most of the mistakes occurring in relationships are not as serious as one or the other partner can make them out to be. Don't let you mind fool you into thinking there is no hope in salvaging your relationship; it will take sacrifice and willingness to move forward from both parts.

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Author:	tdb183 [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 8:13 pm ]
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my now ex girl friend dumped me on saturday night. we where in our local pub and i aint gona lie i had a shitty day. boring to say the least. we where in our local pub and i spent most of the night sat on my own at the table only leaving when i needed the toilet or a drink. i got accused of watching her or looking at her. even tho i consciously didnt watch her all night am now dumped because of it. what should i do????

Author:	Rusty8t8 [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 8:16 pm ]
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You need to give more info. Where you at the pub with her or alone? Were you sulking or being miserable? What is the history between both of you?

Author:	tdb183 [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 8:32 pm ]
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we was at the pub with 3 other friends. and no wasnt miserable but i where bored most of the night. and our history has been ok a normal relationship. its so sudden and its over something i dint know i was doing. and its something of nothing am just confused how or why? it was an average night no different to any other night in the local

Author:	tdb183 [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 8:35 pm ]
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i didnt say anything out of order. i didnt follow her around. i spent the whole night sat mostly on my own due the fact her other friends smoke and i dont.

Author:	Rusty8t8 [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 8:47 pm ]
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Ok. I think your best bet is this course of action; Take time away from her, not for her, but for YOU. If she speaks to you, be civil and nice, but also don't chase her. Do not play any games like making her jealous or show anger, just use this time for self reflection and growth. Have time away from her to think about what you got out of the relationship, what you liked and disliked about her, why you think she broke it off and then to make a difference and act on it. If you improve yourself, and be happy, it is positive, regardless of wether you both reconcile or you move on. Once you have been making these changes, maybe excercise, new haircut, new clothes, new hobbies, leaving her alone to think. She will more than likely be interested in you and why you had not been chasing her. If not, see if she will meet you after 3-4 weeks. Hope it helps, but you have given limited info. Feel free to ask any qu

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Author:	Mack 2.0 [ Tue Jun 26, 2012 2:05 am ]
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i would never talk to her again. (and i am not saying that out of anger) it's clearly not meant to be. she has to be harboring an incredibly large amount of resentment to have such an ill-timed and seemingly illogical reaction to you having a bummer of a night and not feeling especially social. it's quite odd that she didn't even approach you at the time or later to say: hey, what's up? is everything cool? wanna come do a shot with me? you wanna get out of here and go fuck? baby, is something wrong? but nothing at all...? there is A LOT MORE going on here than meets the eye. you think you had a normal relationship with her and this was one isolated incident. to her, that night was the straw that broke the camel's back because of a rising tide of resentment and unhappiness in the relationship. either it's because you totally suck. or because she is a total bitch. or because the two of you simply don't work together.

Author:	Christopherr [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:45 pm ]
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I can see you are struggling to hold things together. I want to inform you that there is help out there. I have been through similar situations with my current girlfriend to the point where I thought there was no way around the problems we had. I was at the maximum level of desperation to save my relationship. I learned a lot through surfing on the web about the conflicts that my girlfriend and I were facing. One example would be wrongfully dealing with constantly fighting situations about pointless things. I also learned important information such as: - Tips and tricks to create and maintain an everlasting “spark” for you and your soul mate - Why problems in a relationship at a certain stage arise as often as they do - How to avoid these problems and being able to get over them with ease - What it takes to know that both you and your partner are putting in 100% effort into a successful relationship In reality, most of the mistakes occurring in relationships are not as serious as one or the other partner can make them out to be. Don't let you mind fool you into thinking there is no hope in salvaging your relationship; it will take sacrifice and willingness to move forward from both parts. Source: relationshipsforum dot org

Author:	Mack 2.0 [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 11:49 pm ]
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Quote: I can see you are struggling to hold things together. I want to inform you that there is help out there. I have been through similar situations with my current girlfriend to the point where I thought there was no way around the problems we had. I was at the maximum level of desperation to save my relationship. I learned a lot through surfing on the web about the conflicts that my girlfriend and I were facing. One example would be wrongfully dealing with constantly fighting situations about pointless things. I also learned important information such as: - Tips and tricks to create and maintain an everlasting “spark” for you and your soul mate - Why problems in a relationship at a certain stage arise as often as they do - How to avoid these problems and being able to get over them with ease - What it takes to know that both you and your partner are putting in 100% effort into a successful relationship In reality, most of the mistakes occurring in relationships are not as serious as one or the other partner can make them out to be. Don't let you mind fool you into thinking there is no hope in salvaging your relationship; it will take sacrifice and willingness to move forward from both parts. Source: relationshipsforum dot org you've given that exact same answer five times today in five different threads. word for word. i suppose the link to your website under each post is just a coincidence. spamming isn't nice.

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