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Okay, I'm going to agree with the guys above me, but for entirely different reasons. Whether or not you have a threesome will depend ENTIRELY on her. Girls do all the work, generally. Your job would be to encourage her, handle logistics, and make sure the vibe is positive and that everyone has a good time. In short, you'd act as a wingman for your girlfriend.

The reason you should drop it is that it sounds like you're already setting the boyfriend / provider frame rather than the sexual boy-toy frame. Also, you probably shot yourself in the foot by getting excited about the idea. The threesomes are not about you; they are about her. It's going to be REALLY hard to turn that around. You could end up doing more harm than good.

Just my 2 cents.

-Wolf

Don't do it! its tempting but it could ruin your relationship! here is why.

Women are very emotional beings! men think mostly with the logical side of the brain and women mostly with the emotional part of the brain (this is science not made up), women get excited by fantasy, and imagination a lot more so then men!!!! she might have thought about doing it, it may make her very horny to think about doing it! but I will bet any money that she would regret having a threesome and it would turn out very bad for you in the end! she will become jealous and threesomes often ruin a relationship.

On top of that she was drunk, alcohol is a drug lets not be fooled....its a legal drug, it takes us into an altered state, magnifies our emotions, makes us do things that we might not other wise do, alcohol is widely accepted because it is legal but IMO it makes women 10x worse then they normally are! since they are so emotionally driven alcohol makes women do very stupid, stupid things! cheat, have sex with people they other might not, say things they don't mean ect ect....so don't take what she says while drunk to seriously.

That being said you could use this fantasy of her to your advantage, If you know the thought of a threesome turns her on then use that in the bedroom to get her worked up, watch porn with her, it will make her go crazy! its great foreplay! I remember the first time I introduced my gf to porn she went nuts! it was like a whole new world to her! she ripped my clothes off and attacked me lol

Author:	RTRA [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 8:02 pm ]
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So I have been dating this girl for about two months now. We recently had the talk about becoming exclusive and we both agreed. But about a month ago she started asking probably the best question a girl could ask a guy. 'Would you ever be interested in having a threesome? ' At first I figured it was hypothetical but because she mentioned it again,she was kinda drunk, I started thinking she was serious. She checks out women and she even experimented with her best friend one time who is currently in town actually!! She said she would want to but it would be hard to get another girl interested. My question is how can I get this to happen? I think she is worried she might get jealous and she said shes 'not sure if I'm the right guy for this' I think I acted to excited when she mentioned this. But when she mentioned this a month ago she said we need to do it soon because we are 'getting serious'. I care about her but I also think it would be very exciting to do. I really hope it's not too late. She said she cares about me. Any tips to get her interested again?

Author:	Dr. Jones [ Sat Jun 23, 2012 10:46 pm ]
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The reason she loses interest is actually a good reason. She's getting closer to you and doesn't want to share you with another woman. Do you care about this girl a lot? I'm sure there would be a lot of fallout if you both cared about each other and she was the jealous type.

Author:	pablohernandez [ Sun Jun 24, 2012 12:18 pm ]
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Dont do it if you really like her. If you have no care for your relationship then go ahead.

Author:	Wolfwoodd [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 12:20 am ]
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Okay, I'm going to agree with the guys above me, but for entirely different reasons. Whether or not you have a threesome will depend ENTIRELY on her. Girls do all the work, generally. Your job would be to encourage her, handle logistics, and make sure the vibe is positive and that everyone has a good time. In short, you'd act as a wingman for your girlfriend. The reason you should drop it is that it sounds like you're already setting the boyfriend / provider frame rather than the sexual boy-toy frame. Also, you probably shot yourself in the foot by getting excited about the idea. The threesomes are not about you; they are about her. It's going to be REALLY hard to turn that around. You could end up doing more harm than good. Just my 2 cents. -Wolf

Author:	dark one [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 3:36 pm ]
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Don't do it! its tempting but it could ruin your relationship! here is why. Women are very emotional beings! men think mostly with the logical side of the brain and women mostly with the emotional part of the brain (this is science not made up), women get excited by fantasy, and imagination a lot more so then men!!!! she might have thought about doing it, it may make her very horny to think about doing it! but I will bet any money that she would regret having a threesome and it would turn out very bad for you in the end! she will become jealous and threesomes often ruin a relationship. On top of that she was drunk, alcohol is a drug lets not be fooled....its a legal drug, it takes us into an altered state, magnifies our emotions, makes us do things that we might not other wise do, alcohol is widely accepted because it is legal but IMO it makes women 10x worse then they normally are! since they are so emotionally driven alcohol makes women do very stupid, stupid things! cheat, have sex with people they other might not, say things they don't mean ect ect....so don't take what she says while drunk to seriously. That being said you could use this fantasy of her to your advantage, If you know the thought of a threesome turns her on then use that in the bedroom to get her worked up, watch porn with her, it will make her go crazy! its great foreplay! I remember the first time I introduced my gf to porn she went nuts! it was like a whole new world to her! she ripped my clothes off and attacked me lol

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Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 5:19 pm ]
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Quote: Okay, I'm going to agree with the guys above me, but for entirely different reasons. Whether or not you have a threesome will depend ENTIRELY on her. Girls do all the work, generally. Your job would be to encourage her, handle logistics, and make sure the vibe is positive and that everyone has a good time. In short, you'd act as a wingman for your girlfriend. The reason you should drop it is that it sounds like you're already setting the boyfriend / provider frame rather than the sexual boy-toy frame. Also, you probably shot yourself in the foot by getting excited about the idea. The threesomes are not about you; they are about her. It's going to be REALLY hard to turn that around. You could end up doing more harm than good. Just my 2 cents. -Wolf Very good answer Quote: Don't do it! its tempting but it could ruin your relationship! here is why. Women are very emotional beings! men think mostly with the logical side of the brain and women mostly with the emotional part of the brain (this is science not made up), women get excited by fantasy, and imagination a lot more so then men!!!! she might have thought about doing it, it may make her very horny to think about doing it! but I will bet any money that she would regret having a threesome and it would turn out very bad for you in the end! she will become jealous and threesomes often ruin a relationship. On top of that she was drunk, alcohol is a drug lets not be fooled....its a legal drug, it takes us into an altered state, magnifies our emotions, makes us do things that we might not other wise do, alcohol is widely accepted because it is legal but IMO it makes women 10x worse then they normally are! since they are so emotionally driven alcohol makes women do very stupid, stupid things! cheat, have sex with people they other might not, say things they don't mean ect ect....so don't take what she says while drunk to seriously. That being said you could use this fantasy of her to your advantage, If you know the thought of a threesome turns her on then use that in the bedroom to get her worked up, watch porn with her, it will make her go crazy! its great foreplay! I remember the first time I introduced my gf to porn she went nuts! it was like a whole new world to her! she ripped my clothes off and attacked me lol Also good, as said above the girl WILL do all the work setting up, It is about THEM your just there as a dick, enjoy the ride! But be prepared for emotional fallout...it will happen! BUT if your relationship weathers the storm, it will likely re-occur

Author:	Rusty8t8 [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 8:20 pm ]
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If you like her don't do it unless she suggests again, it is not worth it. If she does, make sure she is not left out on the action. It is a 3 way thing, don't leave anyone out.

Author:	ganon [ Mon Jul 02, 2012 1:24 am ]
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I've had similar experiences - early in a relationship, girl brings up threesomes, but later on she is less willing, because her feelings are more serious. So - go for it early! Failing that, try to convince her you can find another girl who's just for fun and who you'd never leave her for.

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