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Author:  Shadowx157 [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:25 pm ]
Post subject:  New Relationship, losing Steam... ? Help
Setting:
USA Florida, I just graduated High School a week ago, So I've been dating this girl for 2 months, went to her Prom, she went to mine, & now we've been together for 2 1/2 months. Last time she was in a relationship was years ago, and this is my first. I've already been to 3rd base with her but not really oral.

Problem:
I feel like its only been 2 1/2 months and shes already being like "ehh", I've already tried being the best bf with little dates and shit. I text her in the morn. and she's like "Hey love" & I texted her back like "Oh hey have a nice day :)" and shit and she doesn't reply back. Back then she used to love texting me, and would always try to come up with something to text me back and we'd talk, now shes all like "Hey......"

Conclusion:
I wanna rekindle the "fire" but how? I was thinking of freezing her out, hanging with other female friends, something to me make her chase me me again, cause jeez, "cat string theory" she got me now shes bored, WTF.

If some one has a better idea to rekindle the "fire", I'll be seeing her this week so please let me know.
Author:  TheSeagull [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 6:38 pm ]
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if this is a committed exclusive relationship, as the term GF seems to imply, I would not go as far as getting other girls (that is a breach of trust).
you can definitely be more sociable, expand your social circle with new friends and activities. be somewhat less available.
cut the good morning texts, she should get the hint and start wanting that kind of attention back (I do not usually text my GF just to say good morning - and I do not text her first every day.. it's more of a 50/50 thing, and we usually try to share something funny/interesting, so it's much more about the sharing than about initiating the day - the only day when I actually sent her an email just to say "good morning cutie" she was melting :lol: )
more, she is your GF, so you probably know her well, plus have some kind of emotional connection to her. you could exploit that in your dates by planning them in a way that kindles her emotions and feelings for you. it is a good moment to be romantic and make a special night for her and yourself.
Author:  Crypto [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 7:47 pm ]
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Dude, you are young! GO HAVE FUN! If she want's to tag along, thats a bonus! Be fun and exciting, she will decide to join you on YOUR Adventures or not.

It is not your job to be her Dancing Monkey!


Peace...
Author:  Wolfwoodd [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 5:24 pm ]
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What are you guys doing in the fall? Are either of you going off to college? This is relevant because most girls do NOT want to be attached when they go off to college. Also, the "good boyfriend" crap you are doing is counter-productive. As you said, she has you now and she's bored. Nice guys finish last.

How often do you see and/or talk to this girl? If she knows what you're doing every second of the day or you see her too often, then it takes a lot of the sexual tension out of the relationship.

-Wolf
Author:  Shadowx157 [ Mon Jun 25, 2012 10:41 pm ]
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@Wolfwoodd (p.s. I love your name, Trigun ftw) We're going to the same collage for our first 2 years, so it's not that, & we see each other almost once a week now -.-, & the sexual tension's ok now. I have new problem now lol, If you wanna take a look here's the link: here-vp668615.html#668615
Author:  Christopherr [ Thu Jun 28, 2012 4:46 pm ]
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I can see you are struggling to hold things together. I want to inform you that there is help out there. I have been through similar situations with my current girlfriend to the point where I thought there was no way around the problems we had. I was at the maximum level of desperation to save my relationship. I learned a lot through surfing on the web about the conflicts that my girlfriend and I were facing. One example would be wrongfully dealing with constantly fighting situations about pointless things. I also learned important information such as:

- Tips and tricks to create and maintain an everlasting “spark” for you and your soul mate

- Why problems in a relationship at a certain stage arise as often as they do

- How to avoid these problems and being able to get over them with ease

- What it takes to know that both you and your partner are putting in 100% effort into a successful relationship

In reality, most of the mistakes occurring in relationships are not as serious as one or the other partner can make them out to be. Don't let you mind fool you into thinking there is no hope in salvaging your relationship; it will take sacrifice and willingness to move forward from both parts.

Source: relationshipsforum dot org
Author:  Shadowx157 [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 5:09 pm ]
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Ugh its almost nearly a month later and what had been though was seemingly fixed was undone, we Broke Up, and I need all the help and opinions I can get on this, so see my new post plz. here-vp674259.html#674259
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