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Author:  Silver8 [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 4:38 pm ]
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So this is the deal, I've known this girl for like 7-8 months. I know her really good and we never talked 'friendly'. There were some misunderstandings sometimes but we sorted it out. I kissed her one week ago and i already had feelings for her before we kissed.

Tomorrow she goes back home(she studies in the same school as I) but she slept in a dormitory. She wont come back in my town in three months time. She lives 70km from my town.

I already started feeling sad. We'll have a last make-out session tomorrow. Should I say that I'll miss her and that I love her? I don't want to come out as a phony :D
Author:  league [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 4:55 pm ]
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say you miss her maybe but never say 'i love you' first
Author:  Silver8 [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 4:57 pm ]
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the 'i love you' things already passed..
Author:  Crypto [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 6:08 pm ]
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When you kissed her, did she "KISS" you back?
Author:  Silver8 [ Wed Jun 06, 2012 7:58 pm ]
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Of course.. She said that she loved me first tho :D
Author:  clearspeak [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 2:57 am ]
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I'd just be cautious not to get too attached too fast because when you're young and in school, a few months can be an eternity. Sometimes relationships work if you stay in touch over the distance. But lots of times things move on. Honestly in a few months you may even have moved on.

So I would try not to get attached too hard if it's possible. I know that's hard, but I think it would be wise.
Author:  Silver8 [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 10:02 pm ]
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So today(the leaving day) we laid on the grass at school just the two of us and listened to music, she was waiting for her mom and dad to come and pick her up. I held her hand for a while and caressed it and then she stood up for nothing...

Then when her mom and dad came she just kissed me for 1 sec and said bye.
We couldn't make out cause in this school there's strict rules :D

Are there any good signs in here?
Author:  Rough Operator [ Thu Jun 07, 2012 11:19 pm ]
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I've been in a long distance "semi-relationship" with a girl since Christmas and I like to think I know a thing or two to make it work if you have questions.

By "semi-relationship" I mean that several other girls have had my penis in the time apart, but this girl holds my heart, for want of a better phrase.
Author:  Brian Carlo [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 1:15 pm ]
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Author:  Silver8 [ Fri Jun 08, 2012 11:59 pm ]
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Rough: I consider that as cheating. I personally can't fuck other women and love just one..
Author:  Rough Operator [ Sat Jun 09, 2012 12:10 am ]
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Quote:
Rough: I consider that as cheating. I personally can't fuck other women and love just one..
If you're both in a mutual "this is an exclusive relationship" agreement, then yes, it is cheating.

However we both said that there isn't a time we can permanently reduce for distance until she finishes college in over a years time, and we both have needs so we're not exclusive. But that's up to you.

Long distance relationships are very tough.
Author:  Silver8 [ Sat Jun 09, 2012 10:34 pm ]
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Well I wont see her because of the summer vacation, but, there will be some visits here and there. I'm seeing her in 4-5 days now, should I ask her if we should continue the relationship(long distance) for a while and that she should be loyal too and then continue as normal? Cuz the fact that it's summer there's gonna be lots of girls here in my town horny as fuck and i don't want to miss that.
Author:  Silver8 [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 1:41 pm ]
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I called her once, but she wasn't in a good mood and she told me to call her in 4-5 hours. I call her in 4-5 hours she was in a good mood, I made her laugh and all that, but she said call me in some time cause I'm playing a game. I call her in some time then she says I'm gonna watch a movie call me in 2 hours. I call her in 2 hours and she says that she's out and that she would call me later, which she didn't. What the fuck?

In facebook chat she sends hearts always..
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 11:35 pm ]
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Let her call you time to time, man.

You called her. She says 4-5 hours later is more convenient? Okay, but you might be busy then. That might not be a good time for YOU.

You can not be readily available like this. In her eyes, you're sitting around, doing nothing, waiting to call her whenever it's convenient for her.

Keep your hobbies going and keep going out with friends.
Author:  Crypto [ Wed Jun 13, 2012 1:36 pm ]
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Dude!!! Stop all contact with her IMMEDIATELY...She is gone from your life for 3 months, you need to be gone from hers as well! Go out and meet new people and have fun, forget about her, when she comes back to school you can try to game her again.

You are being a Needy little boy and you need to stop doing that today!

Or keep doing what you are doing, I am sure that will work for you too!

Peace...
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