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Author:  Apocalyptica [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 8:01 pm ]
Post subject:  A (too) silent girl: i'm stuck

Hi

I'm referring to this post about the same girl:
girl-wants-to-bring-friends-vp652836.ht ... ht=#652836


The situation is the following.

The target is new in town. I contacted her through FB. In total we met up 3 times. 2 times of those 3 she brought friends.

Note: She is Italian. You have to know a little bit about those girls. They are VERY traditional: guy should do all the work, and in addition it is common for them to set up groupdates. (Moreover they are the hardest girls of whole Europe to get in to your bed, but also the hottest ones)

Target is giving me some IOI regularly, but mainly passive IOI's.
-She starts OFTEN converstations when i'm on Facebook (much more than i do with her).
-She asks me out on me adding her friends and chatting them up (jealous?)
-One time in the groupdate, i ignored her and tried to talk more with her friends. She clearly tried to get my attention.
-Curls her hair
-Laughs with my jokes

On the contrary, all stays quite passive. No kino, never asks me out (but again: in italy this is kind of the "standard") and the most annoying thing:

SHE IS FUCKING SILENT AND INTROVERT. Completely closed personality. Damn. Seems like she has a complete lack of conversation skills. Seems like i really can't get her open up

Here lies the problem. How the hell can you game silent/introvert girls without being stuck in the friend zone?

I used the teasing all the time, but most of times she doensn't seem to 'understand' or just remains silent.

On facebook conversations sometimes stop after 5 sentences. Does no effort whatsoever to keep the convo going.

Questions:
Drop the girl and move on?
Be completely direct on her?
Keep on talking in order to let her open up and build more rapport?
In general: how to game silent and introvert girls?

Thanks

Author:  Apocalyptica [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 8:04 pm ]
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edit: should been in the general section
sorry

Author:  TheSeagull [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 9:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A (too) silent girl: i'm stuck

Quote:
Note: She is Italian. You have to know a little bit about those girls. They are VERY traditional: guy should do all the work, and in addition it is common for them to set up groupdates. (Moreover they are the hardest girls of whole Europe to get in to your bed, but also the hottest ones)
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
where did you get such intelligence about Italian girls? just curious...

Author:  Apocalyptica [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 9:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A (too) silent girl: i'm stuck

Quote:
Quote:
Note: She is Italian. You have to know a little bit about those girls. They are VERY traditional: guy should do all the work, and in addition it is common for them to set up groupdates. (Moreover they are the hardest girls of whole Europe to get in to your bed, but also the hottest ones)
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
where did you get such intelligence about Italian girls? just curious...
I lived there one year. Just as i lived in spain and poland.
my knowledge about the european market is an asset 8)

Author:  TheSeagull [ Fri Jun 01, 2012 9:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A (too) silent girl: i'm stuck

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I lived there one year. Just as i lived in spain and poland.
my knowledge about the european market is an asset 8)
funny thing is I am Italian (as in truly Italian, born in Italy and lived there for more than two decades). I find American girls to be much more self-conscious and stereotypical when it comes to dating and sex. of course, if you compare the average Italian girl to the average drunk Spanish girl, yeah, you're going to have a harder time nailing down the Italian girl. but many of the younger girls (those born from the mid-90s going on) are as sluttish as any other chick..

Author:  Apocalyptica [ Sat Jun 02, 2012 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: A (too) silent girl: i'm stuck

Quote:
Quote:
I lived there one year. Just as i lived in spain and poland.
my knowledge about the european market is an asset 8)
funny thing is I am Italian (as in truly Italian, born in Italy and lived there for more than two decades). I find American girls to be much more self-conscious and stereotypical when it comes to dating and sex. of course, if you compare the average Italian girl to the average drunk Spanish girl, yeah, you're going to have a harder time nailing down the Italian girl. but many of the younger girls (those born from the mid-90s going on) are as sluttish as any other chick..
i never game such young girls.
Italian girls = too many bullshit generally.

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